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I'm at the point where I'm not even focusing on attracting my ex back anymore... I'm not even focused on attracting a partner anymore. I'm focused on being happy, with me. On loving myself, and life in general. To be able to let go of all anger, fear, hate, resentment, jealousy, hopelessness, sadness, despair and envy. How do you make a list of positive aspects about someone when the thought of them throws you completely out of alignment? I'm feeling lost and confused.
I just want to be free....Β
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That's the best focus you can have. If it feels right to you, go for it.
You can't make lists of positive aspects when your vibration is too low. Then it feels like work, fake and even makes you feel bad. That's completely counterproductive.
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Believe it or not,Β the universe already knows you want!Β
You don't have to 24/7 focus on attracting that person anymore.
You can just focus on yourself, focus on being happy, focus on your positive energy.
That's the most important part.
If all you feel are negative emotions toward that person, it's best if you don't think about them at all.
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Just stay focusing on being happy.