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Little Red Robin · 5/29/2016 2:46 pm

So, we have been seeing each other about a month now after 'that' night. We have gone through the 'walking on ice' distant period and the emotions are stable. We are getting on like we were when things were good. I have been visualising joy, laughter and sending him lots of love. I'm also 'letting go' as well because at this stage you just don't know what's going to happen. I think he's enjoying the feeling of being freer to make up to do things with other friends etc and I have to admit that I'm enjoying that too. I've met new people and it feels like my life is expanding in positive ways overall. I have more energy because he was always quite negative, but he's been more positive lately and I think we're both in a better place. I've noticed songs that come on where we're together that the lyrics just seem to fit in a positive encouraging way. I notice things like that but he doesn't seem to.

So, today he came round and we just chilled on seperate couches of course, listened to music, chatted, laughed, had a bit of food. We have our usual hugs too on greeting and on parting. At one point, he came into the kitchen and we were talking to each other and I could feel a strong attraction. I really just wanted to kiss him passionately there and then but I;m not wanting to do anything too soon. I noticed he swallowed and I wonder if he felt the same? So, we had a really nice afternoon and I dropped him off around 7pm/ Oh, also we were picking some rosemary and I was saying how I could 'bathe' in its aroma and I swept it over his neck and face, lightheartedly saying something like 'oh now you'll smell of this all over'. so, there's little bits that I'm doing that are quite subtle, not forced, just very natural 'in the moment' kind of things. Like when hugging, I also finished by holding his hands briefly and squeezing them, this was something we always did before when we were finished hugging.

He's also coming to make a curry for him, me and my dad as my dad invited him the other day. That was the first time he was back in my dads house. So, what do you think? Is this all looking good? I think so. But, I just don't know if he can let go of whats been and realise that it can be different now. I've learned lessons from what happened before and know how to approach certain issues in a much better way now. I'd so love to 'test it out' I'm excited to test it out because I've grown and I know we could actually sit down and talk about what each of us needs in the relationship ie freedom to be with friends etc.

Anyway, just thought I'd share. I also read all of Laney's books and continue to do send love and visualise about my guy. I have been doing RS as well. He's not a typical guy though, my man, I don't think he minds not being intimate!! And in a way it might very well suit him to have a platonic relationship so we'll see how things pan out. On the other hand, I really enjoy the whole intimacy part so I'm just seeing if it can go from us being good friends back into the intimacy part. I guess that's the deciding factor isn't it? Of being back together? Once you're kissing again, touching etc. So, wish us well dear friends

rosetinted · 5/29/2016 3:25 pm

That's amazing! I think that all sounds so positive and wonderful. well done. Also remember (in my opinion anyway, and from my experience) that love, fondness and affection are way more powerful than lust and the like.

The fact he's spending this lovely time with you is so important, it's amazing. Xx

Little Red Robin · 5/30/2016 12:52 pm

Thank you! So, do you think I should just keep going with it as it is for now and keep on with the visualising and let the physical side happen naturally. In other words, enjoy this 'bonding' quality time together?

swtbabygrl · 5/30/2016 12:58 pm

thank you for sharing your positive results, I am too trying to continue to do Lanie's method of visualization. keep us posted.

rosetinted · 5/30/2016 12:59 pm

Yes totally! To be honest I'm more into sex in general than my guy, he's gone without for years in the past. And though we are on a break right now I know that the emotional intimacy is what he will be missing even more than sex like most people think guys will.

So milk this emotionally valuable time! It's going to be amazing xxx

Little Red Robin · 5/31/2016 2:40 pm

Thank you both! Yes, rosetinted hero, it is the same here. I think my man could take it or leave it when it comes to sex but is more mental/emotionally wired in terms of connectivity. Whereas for me, it has been more of a challenge to be feeling the attraction but having to be patient. That is why part of me thinks that he might even be happier just staying platonic coz he still gets 'me' if you know what I mean? My friendship, support etc. So, in that respect, I sometimes wonder if he will want to become intimate again.
But, I'll continue with the loving/making love visualisations and see what happens?

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Jim Chien Beige · 6/28/2016 3:51 pm

Susiewoo wrote:
Thank you both! Yes, rosetinted hero, it is the same here. I think my man could take it or leave it when it comes to sex but is more mental/emotionally wired in terms of connectivity. Whereas for me, it has been more of a challenge to be feeling the attraction but having to be patient. That is why part of me thinks that he might even be happier just staying platonic coz he still gets 'me' if you know what I mean? My friendship, support etc. So, in that respect, I sometimes wonder if he will want to become intimate again.
But, I'll continue with the loving/making love visualisations and see what happens?

Hello!

When did you start applying LOA?
Did you have a no contact period?

Little Red Robin · 6/28/2016 4:04 pm

Hello

I've been studying LOA for a good few years but it really started to quicken after the winter there when I spent a lot of time watching Abraham-Hicks videos regularly for a while. I kept watching and watching until I understood!

I didn't exactly have a period of NC, we would see each other and talk about stuff and then things just started getting better as I found this forum/veronicas videos and started on the path to togetherness once more! Once I had found the forum, I would leave it to him to get in touch first by messaging me. This went on for while and also we started meeting up for swimming/music practise. In the last couple of weeks, I feel we've moved into a period like how it was in the very beginning, the energy is really good when we meet, I feel like we're in the flirty beginning stages of a relationship, everything feels fresh, I just live in the present moment with it. I've also asked the Universe with the healing side of things, dissolving the past, and affirmed', it is healed. And then, we're together, it is done! I think I am getting results now because the momentum has got going with everything I've been doing. ie. morning/evening visualisations, scripting, being positive whenever I see him and just being present. I've also gone out with friends and am doing things for myself that make ME feel good. I feel so incredibly blessed and appreciative most of the time. And I am always affirming that 'everything is always working out for me'

piggy720 · 6/29/2016 11:34 am

rosetinted wrote:
Yes totally! To be honest I'm more into sex in general than my guy, he's gone without for years in the past. And though we are on a break right now I know that the emotional intimacy is what he will be missing even more than sex like most people think guys will.

So milk this emotionally valuable time! It's going to be amazing xxx

yasssssssssss
can we have more related topics on sex
I feel like we need more serious discussions on it
same thing for my situation too, my guy actually got bored of sex after the first two months as well (and apparently it was the same in the past with his other exes) never did I know that there would be guys who aren't into sex until I met my boyfriend lol...

Sanshi · 6/29/2016 11:59 am

piggy720 wrote:
rosetinted wrote:
Yes totally! To be honest I'm more into sex in general than my guy, he's gone without for years in the past. And though we are on a break right now I know that the emotional intimacy is what he will be missing even more than sex like most people think guys will.

So milk this emotionally valuable time! It's going to be amazing xxx
yasssssssssss
can we have more related topics on sex
I feel like we need more serious discussions on it
same thing for my situation too, my guy actually got bored of sex after the first two months as well (and apparently it was the same in the past with his other exes) never did I know that there would be guys who aren't into sex until I met my boyfriend lol...

Why do we have to discuss this? You have all the knowledge to mold him like you want him to be.

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