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Sorry I haven't been on in some time, I've been living my life and have been quite busy and occupied with my sisters upcoming wedding. Yada yada yada, I'm back because I need some reassurance and reminders! I know this place is a perfect avenue with that! You all are awesome (:
Anyway, here's the situation. Last week (Monday to be precise), I received a text message from a guy that I dated a while back and it didn't work out. Not THE guy I've been trying to manifest back, but a guy that I had feelings for and would work things out with if he were to come back. So he did. I REALLY wish I knew what my vibe was that day because this was a message out of the blue! I wasn't even trying to attract this particular guy back. But I'm happy that he's reappeared.
Now, he has just gotten out of a relationship and does not want one right now, but wanted to make contact and establish a friendship again. He's back, platonically, but I don't want that. I want a relationship with this guy. So how can I move us from friends to a relationship? Visualize, affirmations? I've already asked the universe for a relationship with this guy, and I believe that it can happen. I'm trying to remain chill has the contact between us has died down the past week, but I'm not too worried about that.
How can I make this work without needing and wanting, in a negative way? I am going on about my life, so I'm not hung up on him all the time. However, he has taken up space in my mind and my thoughts gravitate towards him. When I think about him, I remind myself that HE CAME BACK. That's a vibe lifter right there.
So good folks of this board, help a sista out. I need some tough love reminders on what to do. I haven't been in this situation before, especially now that I know of LOA.
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Focus on the feeling of the relationship. You asked for it, it's there vibrationally. You just have to take the vibrational stairs up to your guy. Do things you like, think about what you like about him and feel it, imagine your relationship, if you have good memories think about that, don't notice that he isn't here yet.
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Thank you Sanshi for the good ole reminder. I just have to laugh at your reply time, 7:27. That is his birth month and day. I've been seeing 7:27 before he reappeared but never assumed it was the universe telling me he was on his way!
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big_blue wrote:
Thank you Sanshi for the good ole reminder. I just have to laugh at your reply time, 7:27. That is his birth month and day. I've been seeing 7:27 before he reappeared but never assumed it was the universe telling me he was on his way!
See? The universe works all the time to please you. You just have to open your eyes, so that you don't miss all the wonders around you. <3
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Yes! Its amazing. Now I have to re-watch Veronica's videos and what not. Thank you!