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Should I give up?
I met this guy in November, we talked for 2 weeks on the phone and really connected. When we met, it was "ok" no major fireworks etc but we definitely were attracted to each other. He then disappeared. He said he wasn't ready even though he really wanted to feel something he couldn't. He was very hurt by his ex-wife who cheated on him and then the rebound girlfriend was a nightmare. I was fine and have reached out to him just to say hi, how are you 3 times in 5 months. I sent him a note last week after it being on my heart to do for about a month, just telling him hes still on my mind, I didn't know why because I barely knew him but for whatever it was worth, I was telling him. I ended it with I hope you're happy and just know someone is out there thinking good thoughts for you. I think he got it Friday because he viewed my linked in profile. But I haven't heard from him. It's crazy because I barely know this man, have dated a few others since but I can't get this guy out of my mind or heart. I've been doing LOA/RI/Lanie Stevens since January and I've seen nothing except he's viewed my linked in profile 3 times. I've tried cutting energy cords to him, doesn't work. I want to move on but I can't seem to. He didn't respond to the letter nor has he made any progress of moving in my direction. Should I just stop doing everything on him? Is that maybe why I can't move on? He either needs to move forward or I need to completely forget him but how do I do that? It's stupid. I barely know this guy. It's not normal thinking of a guy after only knowing him 2 weeks. A part of me thinks it's a meant to be thing and a part of me thinks I'm crazy because he clearly doesn't have an interest in me, but then LOA/RI should be working but he's resisting big time. Any suggestions? I could really use some input here.
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Re: Should I give up?
Try dating other guys. It is effective.
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If you truly want to reconnect with this guy - and I mean you really want him back in your life - do not give up. I dated a guy a little over a month 2 yrs ago and I am working on getting him back. But with that said, do not put your life on hold. Go out, do what makes you happy and enjoy everything life has to offer. Stop reaching out to him, let him contact you. Continue with visualizations, PW, etc and bring about your desired reality.
"Believe in what you feel inside, and give your dreams the wings to fly
You have everything you need, if you just believe" - Believe, Josh Groban
its hard to have a better tomorrow if you're still thinking about yesterday
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Re: Should I give up?
ChaliceSnowFlower wrote:
Try dating other guys. It is effective.
I have. I like being alone better 
there are some weird and very screwed up men out there!
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If you truly want to reconnect with this guy - and I mean you really want him back in your life - do not give up. I dated a guy a little over a month 2 yrs ago and I am working on getting him back. But with that said, do not put your life on hold. Go out, do what makes you happy and enjoy everything life has to offer. Stop reaching out to him, let him contact you. Continue with visualizations, PW, etc and bring about your desired reality.
I've been thinking about sonething though. What if he's still on my mind because I keep doing LOA techniques on him? Is that possible you think? He did look at my linked in profile again Friday so I'm sure he's looking at my Facebook as well. Today I was thinking he's an ass because I'm an amazing catch and he's missing out. I've read where people are resistant because THEY aren't in alignment with you, therefore it doesn't happen. They still have baggage and work on themselves to deal with. He was pretty damaged. Anyway, for today, I'm indecisive. I'm going to chill for a few days and see how I feel.
I feel good and am doing my thing. He or someone better will come at the right time!!!
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I have. I like being alone better
Have you done the inner work to discover the real cause behind you attracting weird and screwed up men?
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I have. I like being alone better
Have you done the inner work to discover the real cause behind you attracting weird and screwed up men?
This is good actually I did a huge amount of work about a year ago and realized why I attracted men that didn't treat me like I should get treated, but your question sparked a "hmmmm" moment. This is a great question, one I have not thought about. However, isn't everyone weird and screwed up? Lol. We find someone whose weirdness matches ours and we call it love lol. Great question for me to ponder thoug .
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Re: Should I give up?
I met this guy in November, we talked for 2 weeks on the phone and really connected. When we met, it was "ok" no major fireworks etc but we definitely were attracted to each other. He then disappeared. He said he wasn't ready even though he really wanted to feel something he couldn't. He was very hurt by his ex-wife who cheated on him and then the rebound girlfriend was a nightmare. I was fine and have reached out to him just to say hi, how are you 3 times in 5 months. I sent him a note last week after it being on my heart to do for about a month, just telling him hes still on my mind, I didn't know why because I barely knew him but for whatever it was worth, I was telling him. I ended it with I hope you're happy and just know someone is out there thinking good thoughts for you. I think he got it Friday because he viewed my linked in profile. But I haven't heard from him. It's crazy because I barely know this man, have dated a few others since but I can't get this guy out of my mind or heart. I've been doing LOA/RI/Lanie Stevens since January and I've seen nothing except he's viewed my linked in profile 3 times. I've tried cutting energy cords to him, doesn't work. I want to move on but I can't seem to. He didn't respond to the letter nor has he made any progress of moving in my direction. Should I just stop doing everything on him? Is that maybe why I can't move on? He either needs to move forward or I need to completely forget him but how do I do that? It's stupid. I barely know this guy. It's not normal thinking of a guy after only knowing him 2 weeks. A part of me thinks it's a meant to be thing and a part of me thinks I'm crazy because he clearly doesn't have an interest in me, but then LOA/RI should be working but he's resisting big time. Any suggestions? I could really use some input here.
My personal opinion is that since you knew him such a short amount of time (2 weeks) and you have spent 6 months on trying to win him back you should let him go. It is still okay to do the technique on him because he gets the message and the emotions but you must move forward with your life.
Being stuck in limbo isn't productive for you and when you move on, raise your vibration and attract others you will feel so much better about yourself and your life. If you have not tried my guided meditation "Loss of Love - Cutting the Cord" please do! It will give you some emotional freedom and allow you to disconnect. Sometimes we just get into a negative thought pattern (ie. missing and wanting someone) and it's hard to break.
Wish Much Love and Best Wishes,
Lanie
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How are you progressing now One Angel?
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How are you progressing now One Angel?
Doing great! I've pretty much let him go, rarely think of him and am just doing my thing. His loss thanks for checking on me!
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