sk721 wrote:

I love him and want him back but I sometimes can't stop thinking how he hurt me and how easily he left me. Is this stopping him from coming back?

You can't think about how he hurt you and get a happy relationship with him. Do you see how far this two vibrations are apart? Like Abe says: You can't get there from there. Acknowledge that you are the creator of your reality. You aren't a victim. Nobody can hurt you if you don't admit it.

Scarlet Angel wrote:

Hey I would like to add my query to this.. If I accept him just when he comes back won't he think me as a door mat?? I would want him to woo me and prove that he values me.. I have forgiven him for what he did But still I wonder how must I react I'd tomorrow he calls me up? I want him to meet me halfway through.

If you think that he thinks that, he will. Don't worry about that. You want the loving relationship, right? And in a loving relationship is no space for door mats. So focus only on what you want and you will be led there. Maybe you get an impulse to not take him back immediatelly. Follow your gut and you will get where you want to be eventually.