I'm really not trying to be argumentative.. Really I'm not. I just don't get what that has to do with me attracting my guy back. Acknowledging the other girl or not doesn't take away the fact that he is with her

iinikkii wrote:

I'm really not trying to be argumentative.. Really I'm not. I just don't get what that has to do with me attracting my guy back. Acknowledging the other girl or not doesn't take away the fact that he is with her

From an LOA perspective, it has everything to do with attracting your guy back. Everything you see in your physical reality is just a reflection of your inner self. What you think and feel about yourself comes to fruition in your outer world. When you truly love yourself and know your worth, your outer world MUST and will reflect that back to you. 

When you focus on this other girl or put any energy into "them" - that is what will be reflected to you in your physical reality. When you don't focus on this other girl, she is more likely to disappear. Don't worry about how long its been or why she's still there, just have faith in the Universe. When you do the inner work properly (love yourself, know you deserve your desire, have faith in your higher self and trust the universe without any doubts) then your outer world has no choice but to reflect that and give you all that you desire.

When you love yourself, you won't care for this other girl because you know your worth. When you truly believe in LOA, you wouldn't care for this other girl because you'd know to ignore your current reality and understand she is just part of the journey towards the end goal of you being with your guy.

Its not an easy journey but as long as you love yourself and keep the faith then you will reach your end destination 

iinikkii wrote:

Thanks for the reply poweroflove... I think I may just need a break from trying to attract him back. I do really really good, then I notice what is and I fall back. Cherished has called me on it a couple times. It's just a circle I continue going in. But I can't lie when I say I feel like I'm in a hppeless situation

That sounds like a good idea iinikkii, take a little break from it and put the focus back on you . Do some stuff that will make you feel good, watch movies, spend time with friends.. Whatever you enjoy doing. The fact that you recognise you're in a cycle is great because now you know what you need to fix. Because you notice your current circumstances and it sets you back, it shows that you need to work on the belief that circumstances matter.. Once you deal with this then it should be easier for you to not be stuck in this cycle. 

Have a look at this Bashar vid (you've probably seen it before) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yQU1nFucCPc
Maybe also practise manifesting a few small stuff (not related to your guy) so you can build on your faith with LOA. 

Nothing is hopeless when it comes to LOA. We don't need to concern ourselves with the "how", we are limited in our capabilities of thinking of ways... the universe has infinite possible ways (ones that we can't even imagine) to make our desire come true. It can move circumstances, events, people.. Thankfully we don't need to worry about that. All we need to be concerned with is what we want - the rest is taken care of.

xox
 

Yah, I just feel like there's nothing I can do. I haven't contacted him in a while, cause I know that is the first thing I needed to do (even tho I really have no way to contact him anyway bc I'm blocked). I know nothing is ever hopeless, and that loa is very real. But I just feel hopeless about this. I'm tired of trying my very best to get a handle of my emotions and trying to do everything right.. Just to turn around and see nothing changing. I feel like I'm sinking.. And fast

I just really don't want to give up. It makes me sad to even think about giving up.