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Little Red Robin · 6/25/2016 2:59 pm

Hello dear ones

I've been on this path now for around 4 weeks. Over this time, I've been doing the visualisations, sending love, forgiving the past, letting go and overall things have just been getting better and better between us. I am now finding that the RS is definately working on creating an attraction/chemistry when we're together, I can see it when we have eye contact. I've also been growing, expanding during this time and I think we are both enjoying our own space. We had dinner last night at his, we had a nice time and had hugs when we said goodnight. Nothing physically intimate has been happening as of yet.

So, my question is this! Do you let them know how you feel. You know, when its been going on a little while like this, is it worth actually saying you love them and feel that things will be different etc??? Or are you supposed to just let it evolve naturally? Ive read that to increase the 'attractor factor' you're to just be happy and spread joy when you're with them but sort of just get on with your own life. At what point, do things change? Have you to wait til they initiate/are ready to make the fresh start, a new committment? Do you just wait for that to happen? Also, what if they think you're so happy and doing well that they think it's best to let you get on with your life? I'd really like some input, thanks. He does seem to be keen on planning lots of time spent together this week. I'm just not sure if I'm supposed to initiate anything, with regards to moving on from here? Do I just sit back and allow it all to unfold? Trust the process?? Thanks.

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Jim Chien Beige · 6/25/2016 3:14 pm

Susiewoo wrote:
Hello dear ones

I've been on this path now for around 4 weeks. Over this time, I've been doing the visualisations, sending love, forgiving the past, letting go and overall things have just been getting better and better between us. I am now finding that the RS is definately working on creating an attraction/chemistry when we're together, I can see it when we have eye contact. I've also been growing, expanding during this time and I think we are both enjoying our own space. We had dinner last night at his, we had a nice time and had hugs when we said goodnight. Nothing physically intimate has been happening as of yet.

So, my question is this! Do you let them know how you feel. You know, when its been going on a little while like this, is it worth actually saying you love them and feel that things will be different etc??? Or are you supposed to just let it evolve naturally? Ive read that to increase the 'attractor factor' you're to just be happy and spread joy when you're with them but sort of just get on with your own life. At what point, do things change? Have you to wait til they initiate/are ready to make the fresh start, a new committment? Do you just wait for that to happen? Also, what if they think you're so happy and doing well that they think it's best to let you get on with your life? I'd really like some input, thanks. He does seem to be keen on planning lots of time spent together this week. I'm just not sure if I'm supposed to initiate anything, with regards to moving on from here? Do I just sit back and allow it all to unfold? Trust the process?? Thanks.

Don't rush things. Don't say anything. Let things evolve naturally. Don't be impatient. Everything is developing smoothly for you.

Sanshi · 6/25/2016 3:16 pm

I personally would let him come to me. Work on/hold your vibration, that's your only job.

Little Red Robin · 6/25/2016 3:27 pm

Thank you both!!! I guess I'm a bit impatient and just wasn't sure if there comes a point where you take action but yeah, it makes sense to simply hold the vibration and keep doing the meditation/visualisations, feeling good etc and just enjoy the quality time we have when we have it, which is great coz I get to hang out with him and have fun! Thank you for the support, it really helps to have encouragement when it feels soooooo close!! I guess I'm just a little excited too because I just feel happy and am enjoying being with him and he keeps arranging 'dates' for us

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Sanshi · 6/25/2016 3:37 pm

Inspired action is fine but when you take inspired action you normally don't realise you do it until you already did it. So when you need to ask the question here it's a good indicator that it isn't very inspired.

Don't worry. It will work out in the perfect way. Hey, you are speaking, he wants to see you. Isn't that great?

Little Red Robin · 6/25/2016 3:49 pm

Ah yes Sanshi, thank you, I understand what you mean by inspired action, like yesterday I automatically put my hand on his knee to ask him if he was alright and he put his hand on top of mine and squeezed it. It was totally automatic, I had completely forgotten our present 'status', lol so, that was inspired action I guess. Also, he had cut his finger and was showing me and I did intentionally take advantage of holding his hand to have a 'look' lol It was natural and he didnt mind, hehe

Yes, it's great we are on good terms and everytime we have met there has been joy and humour and generally good times. I am loving it!!!

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