Sanshi wrote:

Your vibration is the combination of your thoughts and feelings (and beliefs but that are just thoughts you keep thinking like Abraham puts it). Thought and feeling has to mach when you want to manifest successful.

You just told us about your breakup. So you vibration is a "breakup vibration" right now and from this place it's impossible to attract him back. You need the "happy relationship vibration" to get him back. So how do you change that? You can think thoughts like "I know we are meant to be" but feel bad while thinking it because you are concentrated on the lack of him. So you have to shift your focus away from the breakup to a wonderful relationship. Your feelings are always telling you if you are on the right way or not. When you think wonderful thoughts about your relationship and feel wonderful while doing it you just have to hold the vibe for a while and it will manifest.

You don't have to manipulate him. This journey is about you and only you. Forget him and focus on the relationship you want with him.

Ah, okay I understand it better now.

I'm actually not really focusing much on the 'break up' at all, if anything I'm actually spending most time just creating our 'happy relationship' with him! I know for a fact that I WILL be back together with him, we're each others' perfect match, and I have no worries or doubts about us getting back : ) I feel confident about this. When I think about him, it's just full of love and positive energy. So I really know we're meant to be.

I know LoA emphasizes a lot on "just focus on yourself and your mindset", no need to care about what he's doing or thinking right now, but if he is not on the same "vibration" as I am, is my energy able to influence his 'vibration' so that we'll be on the same vibrant level?

Sanshi wrote:

piggy720 wrote:

Sanshi wrote:

Your vibration is the combination of your thoughts and feelings (and beliefs but that are just thoughts you keep thinking like Abraham puts it). Thought and feeling has to mach when you want to manifest successful.

You just told us about your breakup. So you vibration is a "breakup vibration" right now and from this place it's impossible to attract him back. You need the "happy relationship vibration" to get him back. So how do you change that? You can think thoughts like "I know we are meant to be" but feel bad while thinking it because you are concentrated on the lack of him. So you have to shift your focus away from the breakup to a wonderful relationship. Your feelings are always telling you if you are on the right way or not. When you think wonderful thoughts about your relationship and feel wonderful while doing it you just have to hold the vibe for a while and it will manifest.

You don't have to manipulate him. This journey is about you and only you. Forget him and focus on the relationship you want with him.

Ah, okay I understand it better now.

I'm actually not really focusing much on the 'break up' at all, if anything I'm actually spending most time just creating our 'happy relationship' with him! I know for a fact that I WILL be back together with him, we're each others' perfect match, and I have no worries or doubts about us getting back : ) I feel confident about this. When I think about him, it's just full of love and positive energy. So I really know we're meant to be.

I know LoA emphasizes a lot on "just focus on yourself and your mindset", no need to care about what he's doing or thinking right now, but if he is not on the same "vibration" as I am, is my energy able to influence his 'vibration' so that we'll be on the same vibrant level?

I personally don't like this whole vibrational match thing because it confuses me like hell. I prefer the concept of parallel realities. Let's say there are a huge number of versions of your bf. One hates you forever, one forgot you already, one is madly in love with you and each of this versions has a different frequency like different radio stations. You have the ability to tune yourself to the program you want to experience. So you don't have to worry about his vibration because when you vibrate in love you will get the version of him who is in love with you, even when the other vibrational versions of him still exist simultaniously.
 

OH MY GOD.
how come I never thought of that?

This suddenly opened up a whole new world to me just now.
I think I prefer your explanation more than the vibration thing now. It makes so much sense.

dang. yes. okay, time to tune my radio lol