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So I had been thinking of how I was in the beginning, read Sanshi post about challenges and listening to Bashar and doing a bit of accepting fault on my own thatnks to Lar019, Cherished and Cotton and with some love from Holistichealing, I thought to do something fun.
Now I am not saying he shouldn't have to win me back, BUT I will admit, I became a bit of a bore after our kid and even more so emotionally crippling when I lost my job and our home. I can se how when he would get off the road and come to me he could feel over whelmed by my emotions when I used to be the life of the party! He couldn't get enough of me. And you know what...he shoudl not beable to get enough of me now.
One of you posted a video from a lady who said you have to accept he is gone and accept that the realtionship is over...So yes I get it, its ver, but that doesn't mean he can't be reintroduced to the fun me he couldn;t get enough of. So I am making a move.
He is in a funk, and it has nothing to do with me. He called today and made it right. No real apology but acknowledged he was not in the best mood and it was not fair to lash out.
I accepted and left the call. I could hear him lingering but I was at work so I needed to go anyway.
Here is where it gets fun. I used to call him the Music Man...he LOVES music and he called me Stumpy...well I am short, so I sent him an evite... I addressed it, "I am taking Mr. Music on a date." I left at that. There is an outdoor fest sponsored by Van's on the 16th and i want to take him. Our first date he already recreated last month so you know what why not! I will recreate our second date. Our second date was to an outdoorΒ concert and i am hoping to go again. I can be fun again, I can seduce anyone, I can reintroduce the fun me and i definately can get my guy back..Action is easy, and I trust with your help and the universe he will rsvp yes, and we will be doing fine.
Wish me luck guys...Time to step it up a notch and stop sitting in the shadows...Time to make me shine above the rest!
What you guys think?
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It sounds like fun. It can remind him of the fun you and why he fell for you.
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holistichealing wrote:
It sounds like fun. It can remind him of the fun you and why he fell for you.
Same thing I was thinking. That is one thing he complained about while I was going through my mental disater. So why the heck not.Β about 75% of me is sure he will say yes. But there is 25% that we won't go because he may not be in town or he is seeing someone else. But 100% was convinced that I traveld the path of less resistence. I really haven't been much fun. And he really has been digging a hole in his life of dispair and I think it was a great idea and I went for it! Fingers Crossed.
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HE WILL SAY YES!!!! BELIEVE IT BECAUSE IT'S ALREADY HAPPENING! EVERYTHING IS ALIGNING!! KEEP US POSTED! SO EXCITED FOR YOU GIRL!!!
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Ok!!!!! Yes he will! I hadn't heard from him yet. But it feels good, just like when I first did it. I can see my errors and corrections are coming without expecting him to do his I'm going to be the leader and he can mirror me.
But he WILL work for these panties...my time and my trust.
But I am going to keep ya posted!
Thanks for the votes of confidence
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alston326 wrote:
HE WILL SAY YES!!!! BELIEVE IT BECAUSE IT'S ALREADY HAPPENING! EVERYTHING IS ALIGNING!! KEEP US POSTED! SO EXCITED FOR YOU GIRL!!!
He didn't respond yet. Saw he looked at it tho. He said he got it and will reply when he reads it.
It seemed through text he really wasn't interested. Sigh..
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SydneysMommy wrote:
alston326 wrote:
HE WILL SAY YES!!!! BELIEVE IT BECAUSE IT'S ALREADY HAPPENING! EVERYTHING IS ALIGNING!! KEEP US POSTED! SO EXCITED FOR YOU GIRL!!!
He didn't respond yet. Saw he looked at it tho. He said he got it and will reply when he reads it.
It seemed through text he really wasn't interested. Sigh..
Beautiful strong sweet one. You have the power to bring love into the relationship. Also known as divine love, also known as unconditional love.
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STAY POSITIVE AND SEND HIM LOVE!!
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I believed so too. I felt no resistance doing it. But I assumed he would be on board right away.
I'm in such a mood I wanted to kiss and hug and cuddle him. He is watching a movie and told me once he reads it I'll be the first to know:-/ not the reply I was manifesting.
I need to sleep on it like the baseball game I worked on going to with him. I kept speaking it. Planned outfit. Even dreamed about it and it worked.
Hearts heavy right now. I miss him missing me...we can't be low...not RIGHT now
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alston326 wrote:
STAY POSITIVE AND SEND HIM LOVE!!
Trying!!!! He was watching a movie..I'm here thinking of him. Just 2 weeks ago he was calling all day.
My insides are burning up in my visualisation and it simmered down noticing he was sitting on my invitation.
Gotta truly work on it. Especially since he just apologized for this weekend.
I have been reading lately everyone's Having a tough time with ups and downs and the BAM it happens. They get a bone...I need a bone again.