One of my family friends is a spiritual healer and always posts beautiful blogs of her own on facebook. This morning she posted this:

"I experienced a few unexpected turn of events that took place in the past couple of days. Some came by as quite a surprise, Some were eye openers, whilst others showed me what needed to be changed. I've learnt what needs to be encouraged and what needs to be stopped and I'm embracing what else is coming my way.

Sometimes, no matter how close we are to our friends, family or partners. We can still find it hard to open up about our feelings.
The chaotic thoughts that are creating havoc in our minds and hearts. The memories that are extremely hard to let go of.
I came across a few questions recently and at the time of the situations I found it hard to figure them out but as I took time out and began to meditate and pray, I started to get the answers I needed. I wanted to share my thoughts with you all today as I feel many could probably relate to the questions that I also had to ask myself;

Q; I work so hard to try and keep things together. I may not do enough in others eyes, but I'm trying to do as much as I can. So why are things not getting any better? Why do I feel that everything is still falling apart?

A; Is everything really falling apart, or do you find that things are coming together, but in little pieces?
It's taking some time to get one piece joined to the other but that doesn't mean nothing is happening at all. Things will only work when they come together at their own time. When you force the speed of something just to please yourself, you'll find after it didn't come out how you'd have really wanted. Given a little time, you would have done it better with a lot more focus and attention. Even if you do a little of something, you're still heading on the same path that you want to be on. It's not the speed that matters, it's the right intention and the right direction you're going in.

Q; But I have more going out than coming in. I'm trying hard to switch it around. I would like more to come my way - new opportunities, joys, material wealth. But I just find as the days go on I use so much energy that it exhausts me for the times I really require it.
I lose motivation to keep on going, Material wealth seems to go out more than it comes in and I can't see the situation changing in any way for things to improve.

A; How will the situation change when all you are doing is emphasising on everything that isn't working in life.
We receive what we put out. The more good we do, the more we receive.
The more we worry, we will keep attracting similar situations or events that will only bring us more to worry about.
Start being thankful for what you have at this moment. Say a little prayer, be grateful that you may not have all of what you'd like but you have enough for now.
Write a gratitude journal, or even a diary to yourself about your achievements your goals and what steps you're taking to get closer to them.
And then, instead of focusing on what you don't want, start asking Divine for the things you do want. Say little positive affirmations to yourself and believe that you are about to receive all that you ask for. You manifest everything within you. Stop manifesting worries, debts, fears, troubles and sadness and start to bring in happiness, love, abundance, opportunities and more moments that you can be grateful for.
If you bathe for one day, it doesn't keep you clean for the whole year does it? You need to bathe daily to stay clean and fresh.
This is the same, you cannot achieve a positive life if you've only spent one moment to do something positive for yourself.
You must practice being positive daily. In every moment you can, so that when unwanted feelings, issues, situations do knock on your door, you can handle them better, move on straight away and close that door behind you.

Q; Is that it? You're telling me that's all I need to do for things to fall in place?

A; Yes. Because one you're in a calm place with a peaceful mind. It allows you to listen. Listen to little messages you are receiving. From your angels, your spirit guides, the universe. And as you listen, you realise you're not the only one that's trying to make things work. You have so much beautiful positive energy around you helping you work towards the same goal. You just need to quieten down the chaos in your heart, mind and surroundings and feel with your soul.
All the answers will come to you and that's when you'll start doing the right things in order to receive the right results. It really is that easy...
All you need to do is stay on your path and never lose hope. No matter what comes or goes, stay strong and keep trying, keep believing and keep on going.

Love, light and blessings"