Girl, you have all this BECAUSE you are a woman! Take some time to connect with your amazing goddess energy! It's in there! I promise. This is all a part of self doubt, I think if you focus on self love you will rekindle this love quick smart! It's ok to go through dips it's just part of the ride of life, but it's in there. xx

rosetinted wrote:

Girl, you have all this BECAUSE you are a woman! Take some time to connect with your amazing goddess energy! It's in there! I promise. This is all a part of self doubt, I think if you focus on self love you will rekindle this love quick smart! It's ok to go through dips it's just part of the ride of life, but it's in there. xx

I am also lacking motivation for some reason.

holistichealing wrote:

I am solely living in every moment with gratitude and enjoying the happy pleasant experience of life. But lately I have been losing passion for things, I don't feel so motivated lately. My empathy and sympathy is really low. At times I can emotionally connect with others about things, but most of the time I feel nothing and pretend to smile and understand. I feel really distant from myself, I don't feel whole, I don't feel in line with my true self.

Only when I get anxious do I even feel anything. Then I realized that it has to do with being a woman. As a woman I feel like I cannot accomplish much. I feel I cannot truly connect with my nurturing side the way I want to. I cannot charm others the way I want to. I don't feel feminine at all, I feel lifeless and dull. I have such amazing curves and a beautiful face. But I lost all my grace and gentleness. I lost my feminine energy.

So I thought about it and I thought that I should say what I was really thinking versus trying to figure out something to say! So here goes don't hate me! If you think of yourself biblically even if not a Christian there is a story somewhere in regard to the creation of a woman and in that story we were created with an additional piece of hardware! That additional piece of Hardware is the rib and with that it makes a sturdy sustainable and Powerful right in the gut the core of my being! With that being said we were gifted the ability to have children the ability to bleed one whole week out of the month and on top of that support a home support a family do the same job as a man while trying! We were born multitaskers we were born strength holders and we were born to accomplish the greatest job ever. And that is to recreate! Your femininity is already there because you are a woman now whether you are gentle or so or seductive and vivacious that's only the small stuff but the core of you is definitely a woman! You have curves you have Beauty you have Grace and you can use them for whatever you want to and if you can't figure out what to use them for just simply use them because you are thankful! When I read your part I always get excited because you are so peaceful and what you say! And it's right now you can't find the motivation to do anything you have us let us be your motivation and let yourself be the determining Factor. It's okay sometimes to lay flat on your back and say not right now. And maybe just maybe the lack of motivation is because you're doing exactly what you're supposed to do stop!!! Sometimes just stopping gives you the opportunity to regroup. And maybe right now your lack of motivation is because your body and your soul needs to recharge together because you're doing a hard job anyway and that is living in your femininity. So it's okay! The reason why I said don't hate me it's because I'm pretty much stating the obvious what you can become frustrated for some. But it's okay because you have the opportunity and the tools to decide what you're going to use this amazing gift for! And right now you feel down and a little bit shaken up and not sure what to do with yourself because you lack motivation but that doesn't mean that it will always be this way and you're not going to be here to hear that from any of us. If anything you can definitely get on your feet right now walk to the mirror and if you don't do anything go make yourself look pretty! And if you feel like you can't accomplish anything it's not because you're a woman it's because you gotta figure out small bits of things you can accomplish so when you get to the big thing it's a piece of cake. Tell us what it is that you actually want to do have you figured it out? Let's start there and figure out what it is that you actually want and then we can help you figure out a way to get there! Just last week somebody reminded me I am not alone so let me return the favor neither are you

Why would you think you haven't...I'm proof! I found you remember!?!

And if you need additional proof go back and read your posts. Your replies are encouraging. Spirituality is perceptive depending on circumstances for some. But if it is any consolation you assisted me recenter and find the goddess within and recognize MY worth in many posts even when you weren't talking to me