https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OaC3HAy9G_A

So I came across this video and I found it pretty helpful, but it's definitely up to interpretation. I've never heard of this YouTube channel before and this is the only video I've seen. I took it as more of a slight tough love/pep talk when it comes to getting your ex back. I actually viewed it in a positive way. Maybe not everyone will, but if there's even one other person who can take away something positive from it, that's awesome. Here's what I got from it:

Stop being desperate
Stop worrying about whether or not they see the positive changes you're making
Them coming back into your life is a conscious decision
​The more we reach out and not just let it flow, trust the process, and let it happen, the more we're kind of "interrupting" the process and putting rocks in the stream. Because deep down, when we feel the need to reach out to them, deep deep deep deep WAY DEEP DOWN it's from a place of fear. 
Be aware of the left over anger and resentment, and focus on molding yourself into the type of person that doesn't harbor those feelings.
You're supposed to get to a place where the mistakes you, yourself, made in the old relationship, don't happen again. Because you're new. And thus the relationship you attract, HAS TO be better!


These are things I'm working on pinpointing in my own journey. Because I am finding myself still making the same little mistakes, worrying, even when it comes to a new connection with a new person. So after talking through it and even emailing Veronica about my most recent struggle, I know that I still have some inward work to do. I'm not beating myself up over it (not anymore at least) but I do see where the work needs to be done. I mean really looking at it, it's true. I fell off my routine, and I did spend the past few days just loafing around, sleeping in, not making the best use of my time. 

Personally I didn't see this video as a negative thing. Maybe another person will and I'll apologize ahead of time for that. But while I've been reflecting on myself personally, this was something that benefitted me and got my creative juices flowing.