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Hi, I still care for my ex a great deal and want to be with him. We have been broken up for a year and haven't spoken in months until recently when I reached out to him and he blocked me. I have a really hard time with breakups (abandonment issues) and he said he never wanted to see me or talk to me again. He thinks I'm crazy and hates me. What do I do? I just found this page today so I intend to start tomorrow but I would love to hear of others success from a very difficult situation. Hating you and never wanting to see you again to loving you again. Thank you
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wolf wrote:
I know you are wanting a to the point answer on how to get him back but that really is the most to the point it gets.
You work on getting you back first, on getting your power back.
It really isn't do this one process and your love will be marching back to you, it is about where you are in relationship to what you want.
Do look around and read others' posts, you will find more clarity
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Wolf, did you get your ex back?
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Funny you should say, but hey why do you even hate yourself? You need to learn to love yourself. I say this because awhile back I made a post about how the people we love treat us how we treat ourselves. So in a sense you may not like yourself. Self love is the secret.
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I agree it's about self love.Β I am working on that and sucessfully started my morning off five things I am grateful for. I applied makeup and did my hair. It's nice to hear success stories
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Hi I've been watching your videos and I really want my ex back , some days I'm so positive and into believing it and some days I feel so anxious or down , please help me to keep focused and stay positive. I know the key is to be happy. I am trying to discover what that means without him. I used to like to read, but other than that and work I cannot think of things to occupy my time or that would make me happy, I do work out , but I wouldn't consider that a happy thing, I do that to maintain my appearance and to feel good about looking good.
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monkay73 wrote:
Hi I've been watching your videos and I really want my ex back , some days I'm so positive and into believing it and some days I feel so anxious or down , please help me to keep focused and stay positive. I know the key is to be happy. I am trying to discover what that means without him. I used to like to read, but other than that and work I cannot think of things to occupy my time or that would make me happy, I do work out , but I wouldn't consider that a happy thing, I do that to maintain my appearance and to feel good about looking good.
Exercise always work...
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monkay73 wrote:
Hi I've been watching your videos and I really want my ex back , some days I'm so positive and into believing it and some days I feel so anxious or down , please help me to keep focused and stay positive. I know the key is to be happy. I am trying to discover what that means without him. I used to like to read, but other than that and work I cannot think of things to occupy my time or that would make me happy, I do work out , but I wouldn't consider that a happy thing, I do that to maintain my appearance and to feel good about looking good.
Try looking into something different, like really explore new ideas.