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SydneysMommy · 6/19/2016 7:45 pm

Everythingisbeautiful wrote:
I think he's in misalignment because he's going through that drama with his ex. He could be just taking his anger out of you. From an loa perspective, you may have created this. But sometimes people really do act out of misalignment and it has nothing to do with us. We can react from fear or love and he's reacting in fear. This is your opportunity to act with love and from your alignment. At least that would be how I'd interpret it.

Yes his life is full of crap at the moment having Nada to do with me. Yet he hates me, annoyed by me, wants to be happy without me around.

SydneysMommy · 6/19/2016 7:48 pm

Cherished wrote:
Yes I agree with the others, it doesn't matter how this happened, what your only focus needs to be now is realigning. People say all sorts of things from misalignment, and the outcome depends on how you perceive the situation, and whether you move forward in love or fear. You really have to stare moments like these down, and decide that they are the best thing that could have happened. And you know what, in retrospect, you WILL come back and say that this was a pivotal moment for you. It's about changing your perspective, something you have been doing so so well. This is simply a blip on the radar, come back to viewing it as a creator, not a reactor. 😘

I think I made the blip worse.. he just said he wanted nothing to do with me. To lose contact indefinitely. I just literally broke down

Cherished · 6/19/2016 9:03 pm

You need to take a step back and centre yourself. You are way out of alignment. Don't react anymore, because you've completely forgotten that you are a creator.

RollingRock33 · 6/19/2016 9:30 pm

Everythingisbeautiful wrote:
SydneysMommy wrote:
Everythingisbeautiful wrote:
I think he's in misalignment because he's going through that drama with his ex. He could be just taking his anger out of you. From an loa perspective, you may have created this. But sometimes people really do act out of misalignment and it has nothing to do with us. We can react from fear or love and he's reacting in fear. This is your opportunity to act with love and from your alignment. At least that would be how I'd interpret it.
Yes his life is full of crap at the moment having Nada to do with me. Yet he hates me, annoyed by me, wants to be happy without me around.
My take on this is he spoke out of misalignment. It's his misalignment, not yours. People say stupid stuff out of alignment. I'm not making light of what happened and his words to you. I've experienced people being out of alignment and I would repeatedly spiral into doom. And then I realized that no matter what was playing out in front of me, I had to stay on my high flying disk. And when I do that, the blip smooths over fast. When you agree with the reality in front of you, it plays out longer and you risk your vibration too. Right now your job is to focus on you and muster as much grace and confidence. You are still a powerful creator. No contact is fine if you want to spend it tending to your vibration. Scream, cry, do what you need to do to feel better. When you're feeling better, reframe and rescript the entire conversation to soften the hurt. ❤️

... So for instance, if the person you're trying to attract is low, then you have to be low to attract him?

That doesn't make sense via LoA for me. That it's his misallignment that's making him angry. That just sounds dumb to me. If this all is true, then it's OPs misallignment that caused it... That's what the LoA states. I'm confused.

Cherished · 6/19/2016 9:34 pm

I think it's important to remember that at the end of the day, nothing good comes from fear and everything good comes from love. So from that premise, your course of immediate action should be to remove yourself from the situation and stop contact with him. It's better to reach for your own alignment independently from him rather the actioning anything right now. If it means you have to go take a nap, then do that. You have to slow the negative momentum before it peters put and you can reverse it. 😘

PrettyFlamingo · 6/20/2016 6:21 am

RollingRock33 wrote:
... So for instance, if the person you're trying to attract is low, then you have to be low to attract him?

That doesn't make sense via LoA for me. That it's his misallignment that's making him angry. That just sounds dumb to me. If this all is true, then it's OPs misallignment that caused it... That's what the LoA states. I'm confused.

I don't think it is confusing really you know - I think, if you are vibrating highly and in a good place, then someone who is low vibe (ie anger, stress, fear etc) and you are just not a match. So one of you has to change, and if you are high and they are low, then you can't sink to that level. That's what I imagine anyway. Anyone correct me?

Sanshi · 6/20/2016 6:39 am

PrettyFlamingo wrote:
RollingRock33 wrote:
... So for instance, if the person you're trying to attract is low, then you have to be low to attract him?

That doesn't make sense via LoA for me. That it's his misallignment that's making him angry. That just sounds dumb to me. If this all is true, then it's OPs misallignment that caused it... That's what the LoA states. I'm confused.
I don't think it is confusing really you know - I think, if you are vibrating highly and in a good place, then someone who is low vibe (ie anger, stress, fear etc) and you are just not a match. So one of you has to change, and if you are high and they are low, then you can't sink to that level. That's what I imagine anyway. Anyone correct me?

This has confused me too. If that would be the case it would be impossible to attract another person when the person is down and if the person is always down you can never attract them. Besides you are not really the creator of your full experience because people can be mean to you because they are misaligned and you can do nothing about it - it happens TO you and you are back in victim mode. That's the reason why this stuff is not part of my belief system and I prefer the parallel reality view on it in which I hold the responsibility for everything that happens to me but have also the power to change everything.

SydneysMommy · 6/20/2016 8:05 am

Ok guys, so I woke up this morning mad as hell. And not at him, myself. I looked at myself in the mirror and literally said...DAMN IM A BABE! And you know what, I AM!

I spent one more extra day of my limited life crying because someone else didn't get it! Ok so yes this may not make sense but follow me a second. Life is limited. And wheter it is the paralell universe of this physical reality your soul lives in...there is no wayin hell the loa, universe or source would want you wasting a milli second frustrated over SOMEONE ELSES inability to live! That is the point...we aren't living...we are mentally surfing through our minds finding ourselves...man enough! Seriously, enough!

The one thing I have gathered today was that I was going to take my cute ass to work, smile all day, take a nap at luncg,meet new people and make sure i feel good about me.

See I get all worked up over "delbieratly creating." Well I didnt create his ****. He was going through this before i met him, during our relationship and now after...you know what i deliberatly created...WASTING MY TIME TRYING TO FIX IT...ITS HIS TO FIX!!! I stayed, that's my only fault here...So IM out!

One of you guys started a 30 day rescrpit...so let's do that...but not rescripting out of love for him but for myself...i am freakin awesome...and i can only get better, no way in three hells i wanna get worse... nope nope nope.

im going no contact, im talking you cry for a change bro...and he should, and not because im mad at him, but his life IS in shambles right now...NOT MINE...Mine is on a brink of new beginnings...and I know in my heart already he loves me and adores me...HE KEEPS COMING BACK...But he isnt going to come back just to beat me up because he is beat up...We gotta do this guys. Get mad enough at ourselves to not waste another second...The loa process is new for us because our sould live here...so who says our souls and minds cant be in harmony...i vote harmony...damnit i vote me!

I love you all for being there for me...and I wanna do the same for you. Darius is there, he will always be...but for the sake of all things good, im too precious to be crying around my baby girl....not another second,

Sanshi · 6/20/2016 8:24 am

Yes, that's the spirit! You are important and nobody is worth it to feel less than wonderful. When you came here you surely didn't say: "Ok, I want to experience this life and suffer as much as I can." You came to be happy and you came because you are worth being happy. Be a happy aligned example for your baby girl.

SydneysMommy · 6/20/2016 10:14 am

HAVE YOU EVER BEEN MADE TO FEEL YOU ARENT WORTH HIS/HER TIME OF DAY?

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