Yes I agree with the others, it doesn't matter how this happened, what your only focus needs to be now is realigning. People say all sorts of things from misalignment, and the outcome depends on how you perceive the situation, and whether you move forward in love or fear. You really have to stare moments like these down, and decide that they are the best thing that could have happened. And you know what, in retrospect, you WILL come back and say that this was a pivotal moment for you. It's about changing your perspective, something you have been doing so so well. This is simply a blip on the radar, come back to viewing it as a creator, not a reactor. 😘

Thanks you all. The trouble is the huge burden of knowing that his entire outlook on me is so negative based still on his perspective of what someone else did. Not to mention he said this in front of someone who could share to others. It was nasty. My true only course of action from a realistic stand point is to block him and ignore the hell out of him.

Today's father's day and I don't even want to go. He said he wouldn't for if he didn't see her....REALLY?!?!?! HE CANNOT BE SERIOUS. Child support can make him stressed..how ex can too but still taking it out on me and Sydney while he has his oldest right now is horrible.

From a loa perspective I feel let down all the way. How can you realign? What he has done is shown me he doesn't want to be a part of either of our lives guys....I'm supposed to accept that right, after all free will states he can do what he wants.

I am totally not trying to have a pity party. But I'm done.. crushed! I'm looking at my kid with tears in my eyes because she is worth her father loving her so damn much he would die if he didn't see her. And I'm not dome punching bag.

Give me a reason why someone could believe he is worth it? When this is how he acts. If this is the pivotal moment he is going to be crushed. Her birthdays coming up too. I'm forced to see him. I'm do done with being hurt and him over exaggerating about me. He is delusional with what he says. Majority is what HE decided is reality. He believes nothing that true because he isn't able to see real events. He has his own negative loa and it's stronger than mine!

How on earth am I supposed to loa through this? I am seriously looking for advice on what to do.

Because I'm getting ready to go into no contact indefinitely

Cherished wrote:

Here's a reason- you are always a vibrations match to what you are attracting. There has to be SOMETHING a little off in your field that has allowed this to come into your experience. But truly- none of that matters. You can change the entire situation if you can come back to CREATING instead of REACTING.. See how they both have the same letters?!

Well I already reacted. I defended myself and still nothing. He still told me he didn't care,still brought up the past, still said no one changes, still didn't address all the wrongs he assumed and I was still left looking like a helpless idiot. In the past I would've been at his house but instead I took it. Do you know how special I am...my kid is? I'm so sick and tired of that being over looking by his irrational bull ****. It's enough! I can realign I'm sure. But I'm dying internally knowing that this is my current reality. Just a week ago I was on cloud nine...now here, again. I won't react another day. I have him on call block now and it will remain there until I get an inversion apology. If I don't like the apologies it remains.

I promise you I did not create this...who created being tormented? I had no issues with him. The entire day I spent at a water park with my kid...niece and nephew. I met other moms and a man as well. I didn't think of him negative at all. I even saw him to drop off his gift and he was touchy feely and hug and kissy...then 11 hours later I call to see if he was going to be free and I get this! The logic of loa...you create your reality has to be flawed. I been creating harmony.. endless hopeful love, friendship, passion. I had one weak day of missing him in bed.  And THIS happens .

If he is worth it he should be the one here...not me. No one should be an emotional punching bag for the sake of being back together right?

I have changed so much..hell you guys see it...he doesn't and he has known me for 6 years.

Before throwing in the towel what would you do.. seriously?!? He should feel like **** not me.

I am TRYING!! I immediately went from crushed to pissed off especially since it affects my baby girl.

No contact is all I can come up with. And I know that's not out of live for him...but it's out if love for me because no one will make me cry around my kid again. But I can't figure out this one towards him because this was not in the picture.

Any advice on what to do...I mean meditate? Scripting? No contact? How to realign...this was a bad one...like the fight before the break up. I even said to him he was the problem he is trying to break me because he us broken. He has created every fight since HE came back... why cone back to to fight if I'm not worth your time...why call if I'm haggling you.. I don't call, HE calls. I pull him every which way...I NEVER ASK HIM TO DO ANYTHING... it's nuts. I'm being blamed for things I'm not part I f. I'm realistically confused where this has anything to do with me and how I can fix it if I'm blamed for things I'm not part of. Serious I'm at a lost!