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I'm in a horrible situation now. I spoke to him this morning and he said he no longer wants to even be friends. We work together, but I know I'm on my way out. I asked if he would even want to be friends when I'm gone and he said no. Should I just give up hope? Would it be best to just move on? How am I supposed to be at work? I'm so sad and depressed about it that I just never even want to go back.
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You know there's someone else on this forum who said the same thing and I'll tell you the same thing I told them. Your current reality is a reflection of your thoughts and vibes from the past. Don't be focus on what so and so said. Doesn't matter. Right now since you're feeling low, you accept what was said like "ok this is the past vibe" so what do you think you should do?
I'll tell you, cry for a little bit. Get some emotion out and than be like "ok I need to get myself back to at least a good place" don't focus on him, focus on yourself. Kinda like you need to detox the negativite thoughts. You can't very well get anywhere good with what you have, right? Take some time for you little lady. Focus on you and your good vibes. Don't focus on what or why he's acting like that because it's all past vibes and thoughts. Just try to be like "ok inner self I'll take care of you"'and one step at a time.
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lemon wrote:
You know there's someone else on this forum who said the same thing and I'll tell you the same thing I told them. Your current reality is a reflection of your thoughts and vibes from the past. Don't be focus on what so and so said. Doesn't matter. Right now since you're feeling low, you accept what was said like "ok this is the past vibe" so what do you think you should do?
I'll tell you, cry for a little bit. Get some emotion out and than be like "ok I need to get myself back to at least a good place" don't focus on him, focus on yourself. Kinda like you need to detox the negativite thoughts. You can't very well get anywhere good with what you have, right? Take some time for you little lady. Focus on you and your good vibes. Don't focus on what or why he's acting like that because it's all past vibes and thoughts. Just try to be like "ok inner self I'll take care of you"'and one step at a time.
I understand. I think I'm just so doubtful because I haven't received any sort of contact. I know I need to be patient but it's hard. It's hard to be in good vibrations too. We work together so in dreading when I have to see him.
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LizzieM1 wrote:
lemon wrote:
You know there's someone else on this forum who said the same thing and I'll tell you the same thing I told them. Your current reality is a reflection of your thoughts and vibes from the past. Don't be focus on what so and so said. Doesn't matter. Right now since you're feeling low, you accept what was said like "ok this is the past vibe" so what do you think you should do?
I'll tell you, cry for a little bit. Get some emotion out and than be like "ok I need to get myself back to at least a good place" don't focus on him, focus on yourself. Kinda like you need to detox the negativite thoughts. You can't very well get anywhere good with what you have, right? Take some time for you little lady. Focus on you and your good vibes. Don't focus on what or why he's acting like that because it's all past vibes and thoughts. Just try to be like "ok inner self I'll take care of you"'and one step at a time.I understand. I think I'm just so doubtful because I haven't received any sort of contact. I know I need to be patient but it's hard. It's hard to be in good vibrations too. We work together so in dreading when I have to see him.
So what? Time means nothing to law of attraction/the universe. Plus if you keep dragging the same story around guess what your story will repeat. I know it sounds weird but you are in control of your own story. If you're doubtful than ok work from there. You're not going to get much progress from you're stage right now. But right now you need to focus on your vibes and alignment cause they're not where they need to be. And if you keep that dread over your head and focus on the dread you bring more and more of that into your life. If anything just for ten minutes think of yourself and all positive things you know about yourself. What are things you love doing if you just think on them and like what is something you always wanted to do. It's not just to raise vibes it also to not put your main focus on the bad.
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WOW! So much has happened. Long story short, the other girl I suspected him of seeing quit to "be with him" and "give it a chance". The same day I found out, he was being super nice to me and we talked. He said he still thinks about me. He said he feels better now that things are out in the open with everyone at work. He ended up telling her that he still has feelings for me. We even saw each other last night, and things got pretty intimate ;) What should my next move be?
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LizzieM1 wrote:
WOW! So much has happened. Long story short, the other girl I suspected him of seeing quit to "be with him" and "give it a chance". The same day I found out, he was being super nice to me and we talked. He said he still thinks about me. He said he feels better now that things are out in the open with everyone at work. He ended up telling her that he still has feelings for me. We even saw each other last night, and things got pretty intimate ;) What should my next move be?
Now THIS is an amazing example of a hopeless situation turning into a very hopeful one
I'm so happy for you! My vibes have been SO up today. And honestly, I'm so freaking happy for you!!!!!!
I'd play it cool a bit. Still respond to him, but don't pull a RollingRock33 and overdo it ;)
Just in case though, since I'm in a weird spot, I'd ask others too
YOU GOT THIS!!!!!!!!))
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Ok, so, I still hear that he's seeing her. But he keeps texting and calling me. Does this mean I should let it go? I'm worried.
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I think he is on the verge on something.
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Severis94 wrote:
I think he is on the verge on something.
Like what? I asked if I could see him tomorrow night and he said yes.
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LizzieM1 wrote:
Severis94 wrote:
I think he is on the verge on something.
Like what? I asked if I could see him tomorrow night and he said yes.
He totally likes you!!!! The other poster is correct. Hes on the verge of something!! I would NOT keep calling or even textsomeone i werent interested in. ESPECIALLY CALL. give it a month or two at most, and you guys will be together again