Sam wrote:

In all seriousness, Cherished is lovely and I think everyone knows that. Most of us wouldn't be where we are if it weren't for her.

We 💜 you.

Well said Sam. Cherished truely is a blessing.

I don't think it's bashing if it's the truth - nobody s saying we hate RR because he's a douche canoe - we're staring the facts to justify why as a majority we think Cherished is cherished ( see what I did there ) - especially considering everyone was put in the same boat for apparently agreeing that cherished does entirely too much - which clearly was just a strategy to make you feel some kind of way .. As it seems by the looks of this thread it was total BS

As much as an loa community we're all about love, butterflies and pink ribbons on unicorns - we're not doormats, and if someone is poisonous to the wellbeing of a community that can only thrive with a certain vibe we can respectfully ask them to align with the program or find somewhere else that better suits their needs. As Esther said , our vibrations come first and it's okay to be selfish about them.

And in my personal case I find Cherished to be more helpful to my vibration and do not wish her to stop being a high flying disk vibration control freak - especially if it helps me stay focused to get where I want to be ... So if I ever go on the deep end and lose focus please Cherished do kick my ass and help me snap out of it -

Thank you in advance

Last edited by Inloveandsohappytogether (6/18/2016 7:48 am)

Inloveandsohappytogether wrote:

As much as an loa community we're all about love, butterflies and pink ribbons on unicorns - we're not doormats, and if someone is poisonous to the wellbeing of a community that can only thrive with a certain vibe we can respectfully ask them to align with the program or find somewhere else that better suits their needs. As Esther said , our vibrations come first and it's okay to be selfish about them.

That's beautifully put. I think everyone here can relate to feeling low, to not really getting LoA, to want to hear reassurance over and over again maybe even on the same topic and that's okay. We are all here to help each other and some people get it faster and others need more time. But RR already clearly stated that we don't understand him and that our advice is not helpful for him. What I see is that we already offered all the advice we have in many different ways and if nothing can help it's really not the right place for him. Besides he still doesn't believe in LoA. He is a member of PLOA since october 2013, so it's not that he heard about LoA yesterday for the first time.

Besides that Cherished just did her job as administrator, this forum is to a huge extend about feeling good and when one member jeopardized the progress of all the other members then I think an administrator has every right to at least warn that member.

Craigd88 wrote:

Ok here is my 2 cents. I have frequented this forum but havent participated much in the last month or so. One is because no matter what you tell someone, they wont listen lol. Two, I found that everything I need has already been told to me

Yes, Cherished lately has seemed a little irritated with some of you. I get it. She has a clear picture of what life is like on the other side...she has tried and tried to tell many of us how to get there but we keep asking "how?"

Some of you here are absolutely pathetic. Rollingrock, you have been the worst. You need therapy dude. Pick up your balls and put them back on. Seriously man. You may say your confident, etc. fine. But your tone in your posts says otherwise. LITERALLY EVERYONE has told you what to do on this forum yet you post something EVERY DAY asking why or can you get your ex back.

Seriously, you dont think people are going to act condescending since you dont listen and follow what they say? I for one would punch you in the face. But, I wont lol. Cherished has had REMARKABLE patience with so many here ESPECIALLY MYSELF. 

I must have 200 private messages between her and I. I am not joking. That woman has done so much for us in this community. She DOES seem agitated, irritated and slightly short/carefree in her tone lately but I really cant blame her. Everything that has needed to be said has been said on these forums. No one should have anymore questions really. 

There are hundreds of posts from many members in alignment who you can glean info from. Cherished isnt the be all end all. Quit putting all the pressure, blame, and responsibility on her. She has done a huge service to us all by even being moderator. You didnt see what this forum looked like before she started.

Yes, Cherished lighten up a bit girl. I know you're getting short with some here but dont let it reflect in your writing. Just dont respond or walk away from being teacher for awhile. Others will rise up and take the mantle, dont feel like you have to do it all! Relax girl

Rollingrock and others who are acting so desperate about a breakup:

1. We do know what you're going through because we went through it
2. It gets better so chill out
3. If you follow the teachings here verbatim then you will get your ex back
4. In the grand scheme of life, an ex is nothing. Your personal happiness and joy is everything. NEVER make ONE PERSON responsible for that.
5. Grow some balls, wear your makeup and lipstick, buy that nice shirt. Live life and MOVE THE FUK ON! We are all tired of 20+ posts about the same damn thing. What you seek is here. 

Yes im upset. I have once called Cherished arrogant. I do apologize for that but that is how I felt during the moment. Truth is, She is confident and solid in her beliefs to the point she doesnt think she is wrong. Thus she cousels people out of her viewpoint. Nothing wrong with that at all. That is her.

​I have spoken. BOOM

THIS IS EVERYTHING!!

Cherished wrote:

This is purely about whether or not I should continue as administrator. This is not a dig at RR. His allegations are very serious and as he explains, many others here hold the same viewpoint. I believe absolutely in free speech, and I definitely do not wish to continue on this forum if most members are offended or worse with my conduct here.

MOST members, like 99% of us, WANT you to stay. No one speaks for anyone else and as you can see, MOST are not offended with your conduct. Your conduct has been stellar and we love and appreciate you.