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The 25 day challenge
or
how to get your ex back in 25 days or less?
I can only buy one. Which would be more beneficial?
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The first one. Forget the ex for a while because you are unhealthily obsessed, or at least your posts indicate that. I have been exhausted reading them on the way to work and you got the thread locked! Do the first one and stop focusing on this girl. Try and forget she even exists. Do something independent of her.
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Thanks.
Eh, she initiated contact with me today... saying a joke.
Weird.
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and just bought both books.
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RollingRock33 wrote:
Thanks.
Eh, she initiated contact with me today... saying a joke.
Weird.
DO NOT REPLY! Or I will come and punch you in the nose. Instead read and do the first book, save the other for afterwards!
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PrettyFlamingo wrote:
RollingRock33 wrote:
Thanks.
Eh, she initiated contact with me today... saying a joke.
Weird.DO NOT REPLY! Or I will come and punch you in the nose. Instead read and do the first book, save the other for afterwards!
Veronica said if they reach out, replying is okay? I already sort of replied, but I won't reach out to her unless she reaches out to me.
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Maybe because after the shittery that went down yesterday, and AFTER I finally got my answer, my vibe went way up (and it did), hence the reaching out on her part. IDK, and honestly idc right now. I just want to be better for myself. If you all say once I'm better she'll be back, then she'll be back once I'm better. My priority is me right now
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I think you should be careful, usually what Veronica says is true.. that if they reach out, it's ok to reply... But if you aren't fully confident or in your vibes yet, it could spiral back downward... trust me, I know.. I remember like a month or two after my breakup happened, I almost had my ex back around November... we were talking a good amount, and she even said we should talk on the phone(I mean how many girls talk on the phone with a guy they don't like or very good friends with?) then after awhile, I started rushing and trying to make things happen as soon as possible... so i got a little needy/desperate and things fell off
what I'm saying is, only reply/talk to her, if you feel you won't go back into a downward spiral, because a little contact now, isn't worth risking your main goal... like I had to start all over, I'm still confident, but I could have made things so much easier on myself
so do NOT make that mistake
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Dan2015 wrote:
I think you should be careful, usually what Veronica says is true.. that if they reach out, it's ok to reply... But if you aren't fully confident or in your vibes yet, it could spiral back downward... trust me, I know.. I remember like a month or two after my breakup happened, I almost had my ex back around November... we were talking a good amount, and she even said we should talk on the phone(I mean how many girls talk on the phone with a guy they don't like or very good friends with?) then after awhile, I started rushing and trying to make things happen as soon as possible... so i got a little needy/desperate and things fell off
what I'm saying is, only reply/talk to her, if you feel you won't go back into a downward spiral, because a little contact now, isn't worth risking your main goal... like I had to start all over, I'm still confident, but I could have made things so much easier on myself
so do NOT make that mistake
Thanks so much!
Actually we snapped back and forth for about 5 or 6 times each, then she just opened my final snap and just didn't reply. But you know what? I'm fine with that! She reached out to me ahah! Someone who apparently "doesn't want me in their life", ha! Right.
So I'm still feeling great right now. She'll come back ;)
Thanks for the advice!!