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Re: I think my situation is hopelss.... :(
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But the thing is you are constantly asking and constantly saying you don't believe and constantly saying the same old story. And you said you were going into no contact the other week and than posted how you texted her. So you can see where I'm like trying to get you to understand that your focus isn't on you its on her constantly. It's not trying to make you upset it's trying to get you to not worry about her so much your emotions are everywhere. And I'm not condescending but when you're all over the place n people are taking time answering you and you completely ignore it yeah I'm going to call you out on it.
All I want to know is... WHEN I get to the point where my vibe is so high, and that I can take care of myself, love myself fully, etc., then, if I still want her, she'll come back, right?
That's all I want to know. Like I said. It's hard for me to believe in this stuff, but an answer to that would certainly help. Thanks!
You won't absorb anything we all say. You are so low on the vibe scale that I don't see you getting anything into your head because you're so focused and attached to the outcome. you find it hard to believe well people who had believe for their Success. Right now you honestly should take a break from the forum and from trying to attract her back. Like in everything I'm saying is to get you off your dang hamaster wheel but you prefer to stay on it and keep going. So that question I'm going to leave in your hands. But when you're serious about taking care of yourself and being for real about no contact than I'll answer it
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Re: I think my situation is hopelss.... :(
But the thing is you are constantly asking and constantly saying you don't believe and constantly saying the same old story. And you said you were going into no contact the other week and than posted how you texted her. So you can see where I'm like trying to get you to understand that your focus isn't on you its on her constantly. It's not trying to make you upset it's trying to get you to not worry about her so much your emotions are everywhere. And I'm not condescending but when you're all over the place n people are taking time answering you and you completely ignore it yeah I'm going to call you out on it.
All I want to know is... WHEN I get to the point where my vibe is so high, and that I can take care of myself, love myself fully, etc., then, if I still want her, she'll come back, right?
That's all I want to know. Like I said. It's hard for me to believe in this stuff, but an answer to that would certainly help. Thanks!
Rolling Rock, you don't have to believe in LOA. You have to believe that you want your girl back and you are willing to do what you need to do what you can to get her back.
Google "how to get my ex back" every site you go on whether it is LOA based or not has the same system to follow.
1. Accept the break up
2. Have no contact for x number of days
3. Focus on getting your life back. Work out. Look good. Enjoy life.
At this point you have had multiple forum members, Veronica and hopefully books, show you the way. But the disclaimer in all the advice and reassurance you have been given is that "YOU HAVE TO DO THE WORK" you have to be the one that wants to leave behind the misery you are in and get to manifesting your lady back.
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Re: I think my situation is hopelss.... :(
GUYs. Just one fuccking question asked. Stop dodging it. Id just like an answer, PLEASE. This is why in getting frustrated. I understand what youre telling mr, thank you - but i just want a goddamn andwer to my question!!!
PLEASE.
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Re: I think my situation is hopelss.... :(
GUYs. Just one fuccking question asked. Stop dodging it. Id just like an answer, PLEASE. This is why in getting frustrated. I understand what youre telling mr, thank you - but i just want a goddamn andwer to my question!!!
PLEASE.
Here's why nobody can say yes for sure.. Because your constant doubt and fear is so great that you are currently NOT AT ALL vibrating at the reality you are wanting. So as it stands right now, you've not a hope in hell of achieving your desire. BUT. If you can somehow pull a rabbit out of ur hat and change your vibe GENUINELY and CONSISTENTLY over at LEAST a few weeks, you may see some success. Nobody is willing to hedge their bets on you right now because you refuse to simply jump in and believe. You are a walking, talking contradiction.
If you imagine it in your mind..
Believe it in your heart..
Feel it in your soul..
You will hold it in your hand 💞
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Re: I think my situation is hopelss.... :(
But the thing is you are constantly asking and constantly saying you don't believe and constantly saying the same old story. And you said you were going into no contact the other week and than posted how you texted her. So you can see where I'm like trying to get you to understand that your focus isn't on you its on her constantly. It's not trying to make you upset it's trying to get you to not worry about her so much your emotions are everywhere. And I'm not condescending but when you're all over the place n people are taking time answering you and you completely ignore it yeah I'm going to call you out on it.
All I want to know is... WHEN I get to the point where my vibe is so high, and that I can take care of myself, love myself fully, etc., then, if I still want her, she'll come back, right?
That's all I want to know. Like I said. It's hard for me to believe in this stuff, but an answer to that would certainly help. Thanks!
But the thing is it is hopeless if you keep doing what you're doing. You say you're working on yourself for yourself and lines later you're like ' but will I get her back'?
I think it's a bit unfair of you to get defensive when general consensus on this forum is we're trying to help but you're not listening... Because we're all literally trying to help and you're not listening - plus now you get pissed off because we're letting you know that you're not listening and you don't like that we're telling you that you're not listening even though that's the answer to your question .. : to get her back move on and let her go for a while, and stop talking about her, stop obsessing, stop asking, pretend your relationship never happened and get back in control of your life by putting her off that pedestal you put her on. She's not God and it's a very heavy responsibility you've given her to be responsible for your life and happiness. Because she's human by definition she will fail.
Here's a valid question I asked earlier : would you date yourself as you are right now ?
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Re: I think my situation is hopelss.... :(
GUYs. Just one fuccking question asked. Stop dodging it. Id just like an answer, PLEASE. This is why in getting frustrated. I understand what youre telling mr, thank you - but i just want a goddamn andwer to my question!!!
PLEASE.
GUYs. Just one fuccking question asked. Stop dodging it. Id just like an answer, PLEASE. This is why in getting frustrated. I understand what youre telling mr, thank you - but i just want a goddamn andwer to my question!!!
PLEASE.
What's the question. I'm sure it's the same question you have been asking repeatedly. I'm sure you have been given the same answer repeatedly.
Question : Can I get my girl back
The whole forum answers: Yes u can.
That's a unanimous YES RollingRock33 you can get your girl back.
Whilst no one can give you the exact time date and place that it will happen. They all agree what once you get out of the misery, raise your vibration and align yourself with want you want you will easily manifest your girl back.
RR33 you need to listen to what is being said to you. It takes time, effort and love from people who reply to your posts and give you heartfelt advice. Stop being the dog chasing shadows. There comes a time when you have to take responsibility for your own happiness.
So your question has been answered again
Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes
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No I'm just very angry with the feedback right now. But ill answer. Obviously no i wouldnt date someome like me in this state.
But im asking, Cherished, WHEN I GET BETTER AND PULL OUT OF THIS STATE AND LIVE LIFE FOR ME AND LIVE WITH A HAPPY AND HIGH VIBRATION, CONTENT WITH MYSELF AND MY LIFE,AND I STILL WANT HER BACK,
THEN SHE'LL COME BACK RIGHT??! Definitely? I thought Veronica said that but i want confirmation.
THATS ALL IM ASKING.
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No I'm just very angry with the feedback right now. But ill answer. Obviously no i wouldnt date someome like me in this state.
But im asking, Cherished, WHEN I GET BETTER AND PULL OUT OF THIS STATE AND LIVE LIFE FOR ME AND LIVE WITH A HAPPY AND HIGH VIBRATION, CONTENT WITH MYSELF AND MY LIFE,AND I STILL WANT HER BACK,
THEN SHE'LL COME BACK RIGHT??! Definitely? I thought Veronica said that but i want confirmation.
THATS ALL IM ASKING.
If the answer was no, what will you do stay in a state of misery and low vibration.
People are telling you to get happy and you are resisting just that simply process of bringing peace and happiness into your own life for your own benefit.
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Re: I think my situation is hopelss.... :(
No I'm just very angry with the feedback right now. But ill answer. Obviously no i wouldnt date someome like me in this state.
But im asking, Cherished, WHEN I GET BETTER AND PULL OUT OF THIS STATE AND LIVE LIFE FOR ME AND LIVE WITH A HAPPY AND HIGH VIBRATION, CONTENT WITH MYSELF AND MY LIFE,AND I STILL WANT HER BACK,
THEN SHE'LL COME BACK RIGHT??! Definitely? I thought Veronica said that but i want confirmation.
THATS ALL IM ASKING.If the answer was no, what will you do stay in a state of misery and low vibration.
People are telling you to get happy and you are resisting just that simply process of bringing peace and happiness into your own life for your own benefit.
Oh my god. Just answer in please. That's what i need right now.
ITS NOT A HARD ******* QURSTION COME ON!!!! PLEASE.
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Re: I think my situation is hopelss.... :(
No I'm just very angry with the feedback right now. But ill answer. Obviously no i wouldnt date someome like me in this state.
But im asking, Cherished, WHEN I GET BETTER AND PULL OUT OF THIS STATE AND LIVE LIFE FOR ME AND LIVE WITH A HAPPY AND HIGH VIBRATION, CONTENT WITH MYSELF AND MY LIFE,AND I STILL WANT HER BACK,
THEN SHE'LL COME BACK RIGHT??! Definitely? I thought Veronica said that but i want confirmation.
THATS ALL IM ASKING.If the answer was no, what will you do stay in a state of misery and low vibration.
People are telling you to get happy and you are resisting just that simply process of bringing peace and happiness into your own life for your own benefit.Oh my god. Just answer in please. That's what i need right now.
ITS NOT A HARD ******* QURSTION COME ON!!!! PLEASE.
Slow yourself down and take time to read the posts and you will see I have already answered your question.
In the same vein maybe you should read all the posts that have been written to you. And then you wouldn't have to keep asking the same question as you will see it's been answered a million times.
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