- RollingRock33
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Re: I think my situation is hopelss.... :(
I don't want to give up. Once i get my vibe back up, no matter what,she'll come back if that's what i want right? Like Veronica says?
- Cherished
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Re: I think my situation is hopelss.... :(
Not if you keep questioning
If you imagine it in your mind..
Believe it in your heart..
Feel it in your soul..
You will hold it in your hand 💞
- RollingRock33
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Re: I think my situation is hopelss.... :(
Cherished wrote:
Not if you keep questioning
... and how do I stop questioning...?
And once I stop questioning, all should be fine and she WILL ocme back?
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Thread Starter- Inloveandsohappytogether
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Re: I think my situation is hopelss.... :(
Not if you keep questioning
... and how do I stop questioning...?
And once I stop questioning, all should be fine and she WILL ocme back?
You're basically the definition of insane right now : constantly doing the same thing and expecting a change. It doesn't matter what any of us say, what matter is what you believe and right now you don't believe you can get her back, and you know why you believe that. You're just hoping to get a different reply if you constantly ask the same question which really is just again... Pure insanity.
In the end everything will be okay, if it's not okay then it's not the end. In the meantime everyday and in every way I AM better and better.
It's done 😘
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Re: I think my situation is hopelss.... :(
Not if you keep questioning
... and how do I stop questioning...?
And once I stop questioning, all should be fine and she WILL ocme back?
Dude we given you so many suggestions and advice just honestly take the wax out of your ear and hear what we're saying. And no honesty because you knownl what you're still doing.. You're still focusing and questioning her coming back.GET BACK TO YOURSELF. Your alignment and vibes are the only things really you need to focus on. You're so low right now just do yourself a favor and like take care of you
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Re: I think my situation is hopelss.... :(
Not if you keep questioning
... and how do I stop questioning...?
And once I stop questioning, all should be fine and she WILL ocme back?
Honest question - Why do you need so much reassurance in everything you do? Why not just do something or take on a task with confidence? Cherished, Sam, or anyone else can tell you - yeah, sure this will all work only to have you come back and ask, "But are you sure?" You constantly repeat the same cycle hoping for a different outcome. Aren't you tired?
If your posts are any indication of how you've been treating her, I can completely understand why she's keeping her distance. It's hard to have someone in your life who doesn't respect you enough to listen. She's made it clear where she stands yet you continue to tell her how you feel, how much you love her, how you want to be together, etc. It's overwhelming. If you were secure, confident, and happy, you would be taking care of you. Everyone, in general, is attracted to people who have a great sense of self. It's exhausting to be with a person who makes you their everything. You shouldn't be idolising who you're with when the person on the pedestal should be you. If you can't love yourself, how do you expect to love anyone else?
You need to stop with the questions and start taking control of your own life. You want definite answers but refuse to do the work to achieve the outcome. Go back to your first post on this forum. You can trace your progress and if you're fully honest with yourself, you can see that you haven't come very far at all. Your energy and vibrations are all over the place. Either give up or tell yourself, you're going to give your all and become the best version of yourself for you. It's really that simple. The only person complicating things is you.
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Re: I think my situation is hopelss.... :(
Not if you keep questioning
... and how do I stop questioning...?
And once I stop questioning, all should be fine and she WILL ocme back?
Dude we given you so many suggestions and advice just honestly take the wax out of your ear and hear what we're saying. And no honesty because you knownl what you're still doing.. You're still focusing and questioning her coming back.GET BACK TO YOURSELF. Your alignment and vibes are the only things really you need to focus on. You're so low right now just do yourself a favor and like take care of you
Non. I get it. I understand!!!! I'm working on myself. It's not a bad thing to question. I'm just asking! Gosh, guys. C'mon. You're all telling me to "focus on myself". I GET IT. I'm in NC, and I'm WORKING ON BETTERING MYSELF. FOR MYSELF.
I think it's COMPLETELY ******* fine to ask questions.
If I find a way to believe she's ocming back, raise my vibe, etc, get in a place where I AM HAPPY WITH MYSELF AND MY FUCKIGN LIFE, then she will come back, yes?
I'm trying to UNDERSTAND. That's all. Not a ******* hard question. I'm really getting pissed off at the condescending attitude of everyone...
Just answer that simple question. It's not difficult.
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Thread Starter- lemon
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Re: I think my situation is hopelss.... :(
But the thing is you are constantly asking and constantly saying you don't believe and constantly saying the same old story. And you said you were going into no contact the other week and than posted how you texted her. So you can see where I'm like trying to get you to understand that your focus isn't on you its on her constantly. It's not trying to make you upset it's trying to get you to not worry about her so much your emotions are everywhere. And I'm not condescending but when you're all over the place n people are taking time answering you and you completely ignore it yeah I'm going to call you out on it.
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Re: I think my situation is hopelss.... :(
Not if you keep questioning
... and how do I stop questioning...?
And once I stop questioning, all should be fine and she WILL ocme back?
Honest question - Why do you need so much reassurance in everything you do? Why not just do something or take on a task with confidence? Cherished, Sam, or anyone else can tell you - yeah, sure this will all work only to have you come back and ask, "But are you sure?" You constantly repeat the same cycle hoping for a different outcome. Aren't you tired?
If your posts are any indication of how you've been treating her, I can completely understand why she's keeping her distance. It's hard to have someone in your life who doesn't respect you enough to listen. She's made it clear where she stands yet you continue to tell her how you feel, how much you love her, how you want to be together, etc. It's overwhelming. If you were secure, confident, and happy, you would be taking care of you. Everyone, in general, is attracted to people who have a great sense of self. It's exhausting to be with a person who makes you their everything. You shouldn't be idolising who you're with when the person on the pedestal should be you. If you can't love yourself, how do you expect to love anyone else?
You need to stop with the questions and start taking control of your own life. You want definite answers but refuse to do the work to achieve the outcome. Go back to your first post on this forum. You can trace your progress and if you're fully honest with yourself, you can see that you haven't come very far at all. Your energy and vibrations are all over the place. Either give up or tell yourself, you're going to give your all and become the best version of yourself for you. It's really that simple. The only person complicating things is you.
So I CAN get her back once I'm better with myself? Veronica says when you're happy with who you are, and you still want them, they'll come back.
I'm just making sure I've fgot this right. I'm just making sure that it's NOT hopeless, and it's only as hopeless as I make it.
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Thread Starter- RollingRock33
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Re: I think my situation is hopelss.... :(
But the thing is you are constantly asking and constantly saying you don't believe and constantly saying the same old story. And you said you were going into no contact the other week and than posted how you texted her. So you can see where I'm like trying to get you to understand that your focus isn't on you its on her constantly. It's not trying to make you upset it's trying to get you to not worry about her so much your emotions are everywhere. And I'm not condescending but when you're all over the place n people are taking time answering you and you completely ignore it yeah I'm going to call you out on it.
All I want to know is... WHEN I get to the point where my vibe is so high, and that I can take care of myself, love myself fully, etc., then, if I still want her, she'll come back, right?
That's all I want to know. Like I said. It's hard for me to believe in this stuff, but an answer to that would certainly help. Thanks!
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