RollingRock33 wrote:

Oops. Guess I should reply to you on my own thread;

"I guess I just can't find faith in the LoA. It's hard to believe in it. How can I believe in something I can't fully believe in? That's where I'm tripping up... and likewise, that's where my sense of hopelessness comes from, via a hopeless situation.  "

You don't have to believe in loa. Loa is about you believing in yourself.  So why don't you believe  in you? And you don't have  a hopeless situation. Lanie  posted this as a reply to a girl that though the samething about herself. She told her about her friend 

"The law of attraction says to ignore outside influences, don't worry about the "how or when" you will receive what you desire and to live as if you already have it.  I recommend doing that.  

I have a friend who was attracted to a married man who lived out of town.  She didn't want to interfere with a marriage so she didn't approach him although they were mutually attracted to each other.  His wife left him and he found out that he was being transferred to the town my friend lived in.  She didn't need to worry about the details because they were all worked out through LOA.
" Lanie's friend had what most people would call a real hopeless story and yet it still worked out for her. Everything can always change. The only thing that makes anyone's situation hopeless  is the person that believes that's what they have. You gotta let go of this victim mindset of a hopeless story. And forgive all that crappy stuff that happen. And be that confident guy.

But if you want to keep pushing to continue to live in the same old hopeless storyline then no one will stop you. If that's your wish. But no one's going to tell you it's hopeless for you when clearly it's not. You've come to the wrong place if that's what you are after. This place is all about a can do attitude and faith ☺

Now if you want to change you have to stop playing possum and really stick to doing whatever needs to be done to get to your goal. Back 200 % in all areas as the "it guy" and the bomb relationship etc.

Last edited by PixelPie (6/15/2016 7:01 pm)

RollingRock33 wrote:

PixelPie wrote:

RollingRock33 wrote:

Oops. Guess I should reply to you on my own thread;

"I guess I just can't find faith in the LoA. It's hard to believe in it. How can I believe in something I can't fully believe in? That's where I'm tripping up... and likewise, that's where my sense of hopelessness comes from, via a hopeless situation.  "

You don't have to believe in loa. Loa is about you believing in yourself. So why don't you believe in you? And you don't have a hopeless situation. Lanie posted this as a reply to a girl that though the samething about herself. She told her about her friend 

"The law of attraction says to ignore outside influences, don't worry about the "how or when" you will receive what you desire and to live as if you already have it.  I recommend doing that.  

I have a friend who was attracted to a married man who lived out of town.  She didn't want to interfere with a marriage so she didn't approach him although they were mutually attracted to each other.  His wife left him and he found out that he was being transferred to the town my friend lived in.  She didn't need to worry about the details because they were all worked out through LOA.
" Lanie's friend had what most people would call a real hopeless story and yet it still worked out for her. Everything can always change. The only thing that makes anyone's situation hopeless is the person that believes that's what they have. You gotta let go of this victim mindset of a hopeless story. And forgive all that crappy stuff that happen. And be that confident guy.

But if you want to keep pushing to continue to live in the same old hopeless storyline then no one will stop you. If that's your wish. But no one's going to tell you it's hopeless for you when clearly it's not. You've come to the wrong place if that's what you are after. This place is all about a can do attitude and faith ☺

Now if you want to change you have to stop playing possum and really stick to doing whatever needs to be done to get to your goal. Back 200 % in all areas as the "it guy" and the bomb relationship etc.

Thank you so much

NC started today so I'm going to give it my all on working on myself. I'm scared, but I HAVE TO be able to get her back. This is MY LIFE

 

Thank you.

In the bold, this is one of the reasons why the break-up happened in the first place, you basically made her number one in your life... even more important than you... she nor anyone else should be your life... YOU SHOULD BE YOUR LIFE... even  if you never get with her ever again, you should STILL be happy. 

Sam wrote:

For the sake of thought provocation, let's say...

Yes, it's hopeless. She's never coming back, ever. Don't bother trying. She doesn't love you anymore. In fact, she hates you and never wants to see or speak to you again.

Now what will you do with your life?

Do you see what I'm getting at?

actually i dont...?

Ok I'm going to dig into my blunt word box and spill it to you. Please know this is coming from the deepest part of wanting to give you advice to climb up the ladder. And I am being blunt and tough as mud because everyone has explained and explained and explained. So let me reach in here.

To me, you are attached to a dead horse that you keep beating. You have your hand on the reign and you are so afraid of letting go that I don't think you will get her back at all(with this vibration you give off). So first off, ditch the freaking dead horse story. (she said this and that and doesn't like me etc etc) Every post has been this extreme high and low. This dead horse is being dragged behind you waiting to ruin another minute of your life. Even if you were to move on and find another relationship or by some way get her back, it wouldn't last long because YOU ARE NOT WORKING ON YOURSELF. I can feel the low self esteem right off your posts. Majority of the posts have been the same situation,same story,same attitude,same disbelief in everything.  LET IT GO

You keep texting her even though you say, "Ok no contact anymore" and you had one day of high vibe and text her like expecting her to turn around and come running back. Yes we all hoped for that in the beginning but the point of being on here has been to get back to your roots. Get in touch with yourself and make yourself the priority. Not the other person. People have success when they are truly aligned with the inner self and make their story a good and happy one for themselves. You have to care for yourself.NO ONE is more important than you. It seems weird and what not cause i take it you were like me before this. You were selfless and always giving. Well look at where you and I ended up. I am on my path and i know my guy is on is way. Why? Because I changed my story, my vibes and I have been loving and working on myself for myself. Cherished, Sam, and majority of people who you refuse to listen to have had success. So don't be so quick to be to brush it off.  
You have lost your complete sense of self with this dead horse. No one wants to go back to someone who is that desperate for them. This is just my opinion of how I feel when I read your posts. You need to gain strength dude. You need to bring you back to you for you. You were probababy your complete self and probably confident as hell self when you first met her, get back to your original self (without the dead horse story or contacting her all the time. leave her alone for now. NC cause it will help you get a clear head and get back to yourself). 

And what Sam was saying that dude you have made her your  whole life and emotion scale based on her  like what would you do now if that was the case?  That she wanted nothin more than for you to leave her alone? Like I keep reading and it is like you are basically no life without her. If she were not to come back you would what? Give up on everything? because it has been already how long and you still have the same attitude you came in with. You keep saying hopeless situation, deep down do you want it to be hopeless? Do you want to stay the victim and be like 'i just cant do it."? Or would you look at yourself and say "I need me back, I need my life back. Where did RROck go? Do i believe in myself?" You listed a list with  pixie and than turned around and was back in the desperate needy vibe on someone's success page. Like take some time off from the forum and look at yourself and believe if anything in your self.

 

Perhaps go and do something else for a while RR. You can't make the decision to hope or believe. And make no mistake, IT IS A DECISION. You have had just about every forum friend here to try and support you but unfortunately you aren't taking any of it in. My suggestion is to go and do something else with your time and come back when you are REALLY ready to practice LOA. Because this is just draining the forum folks, and sucking the lovely energy THEY have worked so hard to accumulate.