Ignore it and stick to your new story. It's the product of your old thoughts. Don't reinforce it.

Creeeeestal wrote:

I was able to manifest a text from my love. I eventually responded casually after a couple days, but the conversation went nowhere, and he actually disappeared and didn't speak to me further. But guess what, he's back on social media, leaving little hearts on other girls' pictures. I'm starting to think I'm in over my head here.

I'm starting to think that he's just happier without me. Beause he's perfectly fine with not talking to me. I have received my signs that things will work out and he's on his way back to me, but I don't know, maybe I misinterpreted them and maybe I just need to give up on him. Every other ex he's had, he's wanted them back at some point after breaking up with them, and then after a few years would finally move on. With me it was instant. At least that's what it looks like from my perspective, even with all of the signs that I'm getting. 

My time with my original life coach is ending Wednesday. I'm the only one he's worked with that hasn't yet been able to provide a succes story. I'm the only client he's had that hasn't been able to get their ex back while working with him. I've made so much progress and love myself so much more, but my final session is Wednesday, and my ex is still seemingly over me...of course when we've talked about this in the past he has said so himself that he's not over me, but that's what it certainly looks like, because he's perfectly fine now with being out of my life. I feel a bit stupid too, I spent all this money and while I did make a lot of improvements within myself, I didn't get my miracle. 

Currently you are caught up in what your current reality looks like and by focusing your energy on it you are going to just be creating more of it. It is hard to ignore what everything looks like right now, but here is where you have to reach for that strength in you.. because it IS there.. You ARE strong enough to do this and now is the time where you have to look to yourself and be your own cheerleader to get through the moments of doubt. Remind yourself that when you take in what is happening now, you are feeding it.. By giving your energy to it, you are feeding it more and more and its going to get bigger.. So why not feed your energy into what you do want and make that bigger instead? 

You managed to manifest a text, so you know that you are capable. You have the power within you to do that, so why wouldn't you be able to manifest a new relationship? Maybe the thought of a relationship seems harder to attain and therefore creates resistance and hence the delay... But that doesn't mean its impossible? All you need to do is just iron out your doubts and you'll be on the path to receiving. It doesn't help to know that out of all your life coach's clients you are the only one to not get your ex back, all that does is create pressure and more resistance.. More importantly, who cares if you are the only one that hasn't yet? Everyone is on their own individual journey, some people can attract people back faster than others so we shouldn't really compare ourselves to anyone else... All that matters is that it IS possible and everyone's journey is unique but ultimately we all end up at the same destination.. So what does it matter WHEN we get there ? We are all unique, with our own limiting beliefs and thought processes.. so never be concerned about other people's journeys, instead focus on you. Your new relationship was created as soon as you asked for it, so it is on its way to you - its down to you to enjoy the process or delay it!

Its time to stop focusing your energy on what is, its just a result of your past thoughts.. so instead of keeping your past thoughts alive, now you need to create new thoughts of the future you do want and feed into that! When you see those comments just smile and say to yourself "haha he has no idea what's coming, soon it'll be my pictures he's going to be commenting under". Create your future each moment. Its up to you what meaning you attach to what you see, so be wise. Be your own cheerleader and grab onto that strength inside of you girl.. You can do this! xox

Thank you everyone for the support. I do feel better now. @Cyclewoman1974 I like the mantra, I said it out loud a few times and it did help me to feel better. 

I did recently land a new job, it's in the area where we were both working (and close to where he lives...like 5 minutes drive away from there.) I didn't apply there just for that, I applied to a bunch of places. But they were the only ones to call. Plus I applied at this place because the pay they advertised was good, and I mean, money is money. We all have to make money. I should be starting there in the next week or so. What my mother and I like to do is before either one of us has an interview, to drive by the place, just so that we know where it is and familiarize ourselves with the area. I knew where this place was, but I didn't realize it was THAT close to the movie theater where he and I went on countless dates..which is 5 minutes away from his house. We drove by there today and that's when it all hit me and it felt like a positive sign. Perhaps things will start to manifest for me once I actually start working the job. I noticed I was getting more results from the 25 day challenge anyways while I was working, because I was on a schedule and I was busy. When I quit, I had to find more things to make me busy. I wasn't taking time out of my day to do the exercises like I was when I started. There was more to preoccupy me so that's likely how I was able to manifest an apology the first time around. 

Things should start to look up soon.

No problem. I just want people to feel better and feel alive. Then whatever happens after that is amazing. Just feel love, feel passionate, and be who are meant to be. Don't focus so much on what he is doing or who he is doing it with. You are the prize, you are able to create anything you desire.