Just thought I'd scribble these little points down about manifesting that those who have just joined might want to know and those who are pros might need a little bit of reminding about like me!

A way to counter act resistant thoughts- don't think about the problem (aka don't allow yourself to go down the road of thinking about how, when, now, why, if....) and meditation. If you can't think about what you want purely, then try not to think about it at all.

Quick ways to get your vibe higher- laughing, listening to happy music, remembering a happy memory, petting an animal, amusing yourself in some light way maybe by playing video games, board games, soduko.

Ways to get a reaction from someone positively- be in a positive mindset with positive expectations to no expectations. RS, Lanies Method and Sending Love do work if they are done in a positive mindset!

Odd ways you can get in the vortex- interacting with friends in a light and funny way, interracting in a funny or light way with total strangers, finding a joke in your situation, getting tipsy (if you are in a positive environment), dancing, listening to loud positive or neutral music, doing something creative including singing, drawing, writing, photography 

Confidence is key ! Confidence in yourself, in your manifestation, confidence in your value, confidence in your appearance will all help to bring people and your manifestation closer.

Coming to the realisation that life is short and not to spend too long of it negatively. Try not to prolong your suffering. Think about that in 5 years time, things will have definitely definitely have changed and you don't want to have to look back and feel regret for spending too long in pain. Life is precious and short. 

Unwavering belief that all will be well. (This is not a fact, if you do NOT think this way, all will NOT be well. It is actually up to you to THINK this and BELIEVE this for your life to turn out well. Because life doesn't turn out well for everyone, not everyone dies after having a good and happy life, so it is not a given but if you believe it, it will be.)

Trust me, it's actually possible to be happy without the condition you want that you think will make you happy. I can vouch for myself and say I'm happy but the condition I wanted which I thought would make me happy, isn't around me, but I am actually happy now. I have no romantic thing going on now with anyone, by choice, but I'm very happy finally  

Feeling lonely is the worst vibration to be in to attract a person. You absolutely cannot be in that vibration for your manifestation to come to you, because it won't come. 

When attracting a specific person, try not to see them as they were to you in the past, but try to see them in the way you saw them before you were in a relationship with them. Try to see them in their better qualities, try to separate how they related to you to how they are just as a person by themselves and see that person. You want to see them as you first did because when you saw them that way, they liked it that much that they fell in love with you. You also want to see yourself and be the you that you were back then, because that is the person they are attracted to and that hasn't changed. 

If you are in contact, try to start in the vortex and feel the freedom to stop contact if you are getting negative emotion from it. Be confident in your ability to attract them, but if you are getting negative emotion, you need to step away and then let it go again and let it come back at a better time for you and them. 

When going through something very negative, don't try and change it, ride it out and if you can, just try to ignore it and focus on other things. You cannot change it, but it will stop and end and then you can change it. 

You have to accept the reality around you to change it. You have to be the change. You have to say 'there is no boyfriend, but he is coming, and I am going to be happy and do what I would do if I had a boyfriend.' (aka be happy, focus on friends, family, travel, hobbies...etc)

You need to get to the place where you can look at your specific person and not feel pain, anger, frustration, desperation....any negative emotion. You need to be able to look at them and naturally want to smile and hug them and send them love, otherwise your manifestation won't come!

You have to be gentle and honest with yourself. You need to have faith and trust and care about how you feel in order for you to manifest anything positive!