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The "Stick to your new Story" Challenge
Many people on this board are still repeating what happened over and over again or at least are focused on what is.
I challenge you to take your focus off what was and what is and live your new story for 30 days. 
After that time you can go back to your old story if it feels better to you but stick to your new story for these 30 days!
Rules:
1. Post your new story here in present tense without one sentence about your old story! Think about what it is you really want. You don't want your ex back. You want the relationship. But what kind of relationship?
2. Stick to these story for the next 30 days. Think from that new reality. Feel it as much as possible.
3. Don't think about what was and don't talk about what was, at least not in the challenge thread, but it would be to your benefit if you don't do it at all.
If someone breaks the rules I will personally kick their ass. 
Requirements to take part:
- To get a benefit out of this challenge you shouldn't be desperate or unhappy. When you are still thinking about your ex all the time this challenge might not be for you.
- To be able to really feel the new relationship your vibration has to have a certain height.
- You shouldn't feel the need to talk about what was all the time - this one is obvious.
I have to add something very important:
Your new story is NOT the moment you get your person. It's really about the relationship you want to have with this person. If you are not sure what I mean by this read all the stories here.
Last edited by Sanshi (6/12/2016 9:27 am)
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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I will start the challenge on June 11th.
My new story is:
I'm in a happy, fulfilled relationship with B. He is absolutely crazy about me, loves me very much and shows it in his actions and words. When we are together we have so much fun, joking around, laughing about nonsense, cuddling. He is very affectionate. He does everything in his power to make me happy and I appreciate that very much but I know that I'm responsible for my own happiness. That's the reason why I refuse to disregard my hobbies and friends and most important - my alignment. He respects me for that and I feel his love for me growing every day. He cooks for me, send me a lot of messages every day even when we just met and wants to see me as much as possible. He refuse to let me pay for anything. We are doing so much fun things together and I just enjoy his company. He always has my back, no matter what crazy idea I come up with.
When he doesn't like something he speaks with me about it and we can find a solution. He always makes it clear what he want. That gives me a feeling of security because I know his boundaries.
We talk about things for hours and I just feel snug and comfortable when I'm with him.
I'm so grateful for this beautiful relationship. <3
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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Thread Starter- TheWinner
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LOVE LOVE LOVE the title, Sanshi!
i'm back later with mine 
xoxoxo
- Scarlet_Kerouac
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Haha yes I need this!I love your new story Sanshi , be back with mine in a bit too! 
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Well, I can never truly shake that feeling that "she's gone, and maybe seeing someone else". That anxiety in the pit of my stomach is ALWAYS there. Is that a problem when it comes to this?
I'll give it a shot anyway, despite still being a little obsess-y over her...
My New Story:
Well, she came back today. She contacted me on Facebook asking me to meet up for coffee. It's been about a week or 2 of no contact, if not a little more. Can't remember. Anyway, When I got there, we sat in her car, with our StarBucks drinks, and she laid hers down in the cup holder on the right of her. I almost took a sip when something amazing happened (I even spilled a little bit of my latte! Oops!); she reached over, hugged me tight, and said, "I'm so sorry I've been so cold and distant. You hurt me and that's why I put up that front. I'm so so sorry. I want to be with you again. I miss us. Can we give this another shot? Please? I really, really really like you" - So I looked her in the eyes, her arms still wrapped around me, and I replied, in a soft tone, "Yes." At this point her hug got immensely tighter as she bowed her head down into my chest. I placed my right hand on the left side of her cheek, moving some of her hair out of her face, and told her, "I love you." and we went in for the kiss.
BEST. DAY. EVER! (I get chills writing this! Let's home I can make it a reality )
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Thanks everyone.
PixelPie wrote:
Sanshi this is one if the best challenges yet ☺ I really hope everyone joins in ☺
I heard Abraham talking about alignment and that ideas are flowing to you when your vibration is high and I thought "I have worked on my vibration. Where are my ideas?". Here they are or at least one of them.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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Well, I can never truly shake that feeling that "she's gone, and maybe seeing someone else". That anxiety in the pit of my stomach is ALWAYS there. Is that a problem when it comes to this?
I'll give it a shot anyway, despite still being a little obsess-y over her...
My New Story:
Well, she came back today. She contacted me on Facebook asking me to meet up for coffee. It's been about a week or 2 of no contact, if not a little more. Can't remember. Anyway, When I got there, we sat in her car, with our StarBucks drinks, and she laid hers down in the cup holder on the right of her. I almost took a sip when something amazing happened (I even spilled a little bit of my latte! Oops!); she reached over, hugged me tight, and said, "I'm so sorry I've been so cold and distant. You hurt me and that's why I put up that front. I'm so so sorry. I want to be with you again. I miss us. Can we give this another shot? Please? I really, really really like you" - So I looked her in the eyes, her arms still wrapped around me, and I replied, in a soft tone, "Yes." At this point her hug got immensely tighter as she bowed her head down into my chest. I placed my right hand on the left side of her cheek, moving some of her hair out of her face, and told her, "I love you." and we went in for the kiss.
BEST. DAY. EVER! (I get chills writing this! Let's home I can make it a reality
I'm very sorry but I have to kick your ass now how promised. Please send me your adress via pm so that I can do my job.
Aside from talking about what is you made another mistake. The "how" is not your job. It doesn't matter how it happens. You don't have to figure that out. Read my story and try again. It's not about a specific event. It's about the relationship in general.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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Thread Starter- Cyclewoman1974
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I'm in..I'll post in a bit. Sanshi, I have noticed a huge shift in your vibration in the past month. It's amazing how much of an inspiration you have become to us all. I really appreciate you.
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Hehe to the above! Sorry Rolling Rock I do understand it's hard to separate from your 'old story' sometimes!!
My story: H and I are in a beautiful, romantic, creative, fun and loving relationship, we have loads of fun and adventures and socialise lots together (as well as enjoying cosy nights in) and our relationship is super strong. It is a faithful, passionate and committed relationship, always evolving for the better that will lead to marriage and one that endures any challenges that come our way - we figure stuff out as a team. We are each other's best friend as well as partner. We are deeply in love with each other
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I'm in..I'll post in a bit. Sanshi, I have noticed a huge shift in your vibration in the past month. It's amazing how much of an inspiration you have become to us all. I really appreciate you.
Thank you so much for the feedback. <3 That means a lot to me, really. At the moment I put most of my free time in posting on this forum and I'm glad it helps people.
I learned so much here and I knew the day would come that I can give something back. I don't know what the exact cause were but it suddenly just clicked for me. After 6 years I finally even understand what Abraham is talking about. I think putting the guy aside for a while and making my happiness the most important thing helped me a lot.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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