Iroquois wrote:

Hi guys - just wanna start by saying thank you all for the great support you provide, especially to LOA newbies like myself.

Following your advice, I have not faltered in believing / knowing that a particular person is attracted to me, and so far I've managed to manifest a few small things regarding her. Such as "randomly" bumping in to her.

But now she's heading overseas for work for two months, after taking a short holiday that she refuses to tell anyone the details of. (and which I refuse to get paranoid over - simply telling myself that it doesn't matter what she's up to)

I know this is a good opportunity to break contact and focus on myself for a while. We said goodbye on friendly terms, and I felt like she was a little disappointed when she realised she wasn't going to see me for a while.

I KNOW she's harbouring feelings for me, unfortunately She's notoriously closed off. Nonetheless I've managed to manifest small things, and now i really want to up the ante and start manifesting the things ive been struggling to get. The text messages for example, the "random" contact out of the blue etc.

So does anyone have advice in long distance LOA, RS, manifestations, contact, etc?

Once again thanks for the advice in advance!

There is no "long distance LOA". LoA doesn't function within the dimensions of space and time, so it isn't your concern.

First of all stop telling yourself a story about her (She's notoriously closed off). Maybe that's your past experience but it has no relevance anymore. Let it go and concentrate on how you want her to be. She will change when you change your concept of her.

It's just my opinion but why do you want to manifest text messages? Your goal is a relationship, right? I understand that you feel you have to make baby steps but how it will happen isn't your concern. You don't have to manifest first a text, then bumping into her, then getting a kiss and so on. You just have to focus on what's your end goal. For some maybe it is easier to make one step after the other but for me it sounds like lack of face. Maybe I'm wrong - you are the only one who knows that for sure.

You say you are a newbie. So the best thing you can do is to read up on LoA as much as possible. The concept of LoA isn't complicated but you have to study it if you really want to get it. It's so different from what you are used to.

I think it is great that she is away for 2 months. Much time to work on yourself. Use the time wisely.
 

Iroquois wrote:

Thanks for your help.

I've been focusing on little manifesting, as it was recommended to me as a means to build my faith in LOA. I found each little victory would feed another, and help keep the doubts at bay. But I will follow your advice and instead focus my energy on the relationship I will have / am having with her.

One thing you mentioned stood out to me though, you said "she'll change when your concept of her changes", I would appreciate if you could perhaps give me more detail as to what you mean.

Thank you again.

Manifesting little things is very helpful but it would be better to do that with things that are unrelated to her. I think many people have a lot of resistance when it comes to getting an text from their a specific person. If you want to build your faith in LoA manifest coffees and little gifts and balloons. The problem with the text is you have resistance so it doesnt' happen (or it takes very long) -> you doubt that LoA is real. Towards the balloon you have no resistance at all, it happens quickly -> you start to believe in LoA more and more.

To your question: You current image of the world is that you are here and the girl is over there and you are not really connected. Now try for a moment not to think that she is an individual. It's like in a dream. When you dream you have a dream character (normally yourself) and you identify with this dream character. You feel that other people in your dream are outside of you and that you can't control their behaviour or thinking. They seem to be seperated from your "dream you", they act on their own. But when you wake up you realise that the whole dream was in your consciousness. So you were literally your dream character, the trees around you, other people, the house.
Now adopt that concept on your seemingly so real reality. Understand that you on some level ARE the girl, so you can influence her and you do it every second. How do you do it? With your thoughts and beliefs about her. Lets think of an example here:
You have a new boss. The first time you meet him he looks very grumpy (you don't know why - maybe he is just sick). Now you assume on a subconscious or maybe conscious level that this person is always grumpy or maybe that he don't like you. Let's say you assume the second one. You feel he don't like you. So he starts to not like you (because you believe it) and you get evidence for that. With your colleagues he's joking around all the time but you only get grumpy looks. So you think: "HA, I knew it, he just doesn't like me. He would be glad if I would leave". And guess what? 2 weeks later he offers you that he is not so happy with your work and so on...
You observe something without knowing the cause of your observation (it's just contrast so that you can choose what you like). Now you judge the situation and this judgment becomes your reality. Do you understand what I mean?

People have different feelings towards other people and act differently. Why? Because of the beliefs other people hold about them.