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My ex and I broke up a few months ago and about four weeks ago I stumbled upon the Elizabeth Daniels book and started working through that and more recently Veronica's challenge. After not having spoken for six weeks, my ex called me 10 days ago and we had a two hour conversation. In our initial conversation, she mentioned she had met someone and happily dating them (this didn't bother me as I know better). Since then, we've been talking and texting almost daily and had some very intimate discussions. I mentioned I was planning a vacation and she mentioned maybe she'll join me.
A few days ago her and the bf had a fall-out and I saw the universe in action. She went dark on me yesterday in the middle of a conversation and then this morning she said she had some time to think and wanted to talk this evening. All day, it was definitely on my mind and I did a lot of visualizations and affirmations to keep my spirit up. We talked and she canceled our meeting this weekend and said she was committed to him (even though his thing he did was a deal breaker). I know this is just a step in the process, so I don't feel deterred. I'm just trying to figure out how to conquer it.
Has anyone else had something like this occur and how have you dealt with it?
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Kudos to your progress! Way to go! I've been having my stuck moments, and a month or so ago I came to a point where things really were moving in the right direction, but I let drama get the better of me and had to start back from zero. But after talking with Veronica via email (which I highly recommend especially if you need some support or some insight without someone telling you what to do in terms of tactics like when to text them and when not to, the advice is solely based on what you can do for yourself which I love) I've been spending more time just trying to relax and get happy, focus on other goals I have in my life, like job hunting, working on my schoolwork, exercise, my meditations, cleaning/preparing the way, and whatever exercises are in the 25 day challenge which I'm restarting. I'm also spending more time feeling gratitude and giving thanks for things that I've already manifested. At one point I was able to manifest an apology from my love. A really heartfelt one where he shared feelings that he's never shared before. So if I was able to do it before, I'm certainly able to do it again. He did text me yesterday (breaking 2 and a half/3 weeks of no contact) but it was just something light and funny so I didn't respond, but I did feel gratitude for being able to attract that and manifest some form of contact. Didn't hear from him today, but I'm ok with it, because what I WANT is the apology, and I'm going to get it. So that's what I'm doing to deal with any feelings of being stuck right now. Hope that helps somehow!
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Wow. she is TOTALLY into you. I can tell. She might seem "committed" to the other guy, but that' s all fake and stuff. She's yours