Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum » Encouragement needed! Rising to the challenge.

Scarlet_Kerouac · 6/06/2016 10:15 am

Old story: Ex broke up with me about a year ago. Lots of fights and insecurity etc on my part. On and off contact since, found out couple of weeks ago he is seeing someone new. Was devastated but have managed to pull myself quickly out of being in a 'down' state. I asked him if he still has an romantic feelings for me and told him I do for him and want to try something new (I know..I panicked I guess!) He since replied and said he doesn't think it's heathy to consider something between us again as stops us both moving on and upwards, he said it's best we leave our relationship in the past as it was so special and that he can't go back to that way of thinking about me. So, I'm now wiping all that away and doing everything to believe that it's still so possible to change my reality and to create something new with him. It's hard sometimes because of what he said last. I cancel any negative thoughts out about him and I /him by switching to positive ones or thinking about something else entirely. I just hope my overall vibe is good, I think it is now..I do struggle with the doubts here and there which is frustrating as I now it blocks things. I am now seeing it as an adventure and wanting to have fun with it all. I know I can be ok without him but I do love him and know we can be so good together. If anyone can give me any words of encouragement or has been able to succeed despite their love saing something similar to them then that would be soso appreciated. I've also been listening to 'letting go' mp3's so that I can fully release the old relationship and doing EFT tapping.

Sanshi · 6/06/2016 10:45 am

Welcome to the forum. I'm glad you took by advice and joined us. We have a great community here.

We have many success stories out there but the one that impressed me the most was the one of BooLala (check it out). He managed to attract his girl back three times, once she even was engaged. To raise your vibration you can read every post by Cherished and I guarantee you it'll boost your confidence enormously. She is brilliant.

I already gave you much advice, so I won't repeat it all but I feel you are in a much better place now then yesterday. Keep it up.
You don't need to hope that your vibe is good. You can feel it. If you are not sure about it it possibly not that good but maybe I'm wrong. What happened to me was that I felt good overall but I had always this bad feeling in my stomach because I have held a lot of resistance. Maybe it's something similar for you and that's the reason you are not sure about your vibe?

You are on the right track. Don't give up. You can do it. <3

Scarlet_Kerouac · 6/06/2016 1:45 pm

Thank you! I'm really glad you recommended this forum to me! I have checked out the members you recommended me too and will continue to read more of their posts.I think I just wonder as I have other things going on in my life that make it hard to always be on a sky high vibration? And as I said there are the odd moments of doubt that I'm doing my best not to not entertain. I think I'm doing well considering I'm actually amazed that that 'pit of the stomach' feeling seems to have dissapated so much already!
I was wondering about what you said about visualisation in your private message from the other forum - as it's quite a big part of Veronica's 25 day challenge..? I definitely realise its not 'everything' though but I do feel it gets me into a good vibration and I feel good after doing it.
Thank you so much for your help and encouragement I really appreciate it. <3

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Sanshi · 6/06/2016 4:09 pm

Scarlet_Kerouac wrote:
Thank you! I'm really glad you recommended this forum to me! I have checked out the members you recommended me too and will continue to read more of their posts.I think I just wonder as I have other things going on in my life that make it hard to always be on a sky high vibration? And as I said there are the odd moments of doubt that I'm doing my best not to not entertain. I think I'm doing well considering I'm actually amazed that that 'pit of the stomach' feeling seems to have dissapated so much already!
I was wondering about what you said about visualisation in your private message from the other forum - as it's quite a big part of Veronica's 25 day challenge..? I definitely realise its not 'everything' though but I do feel it gets me into a good vibration and I feel good after doing it.
Thank you so much for your help and encouragement I really appreciate it. <3

I don't think you have to be always in a sky high vibration to manifest. But when you say there are things going on that make it hard to hold your vibration high maybe you should work on your thoughts towards these subjects. I just recently learned that I'm really capable of reacting differently to situations that made me always feel bad. The last 1 1/2 weeks nothing could bring me down. It's an amazing feeling if your vibration isn't dependent on what happens. It needs a bit practice but it's really worth it.
If visualising makes you feel good do it. I just wanted to point out that it is not the visualisation that manifests. You can manifest without visualising, you can fail to manifest with visualising. That's all what i meant. It's just a tool. You can have the most beautiful hammer in the world but without putting some of your muscle's energy in it's useless.

Scarlet_Kerouac · 6/09/2016 9:21 am

Thank you Sanchi. Being in NC is definitely helping! I am feeling better about the other situations in my life now yep by changing my attitude to them, you are so right I've been watching tons of Abraham Hicks and reading aroun the subject of LOA loads too, with various Ebooks. It's all definitely uplifting me though I still get intrusive moments of doubt here n there, I try to not engage with them.. I think it's getting better.

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angeldust4 · 6/09/2016 10:17 am

What's the new story you want?

Scarlet_Kerouac · 6/09/2016 10:22 am

My love and I are together in a brand new relationship that is full of romance, fun, light, love and laughter. Any challenges we face we are able to solve easily by working together.

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Sanshi · 6/09/2016 11:07 am

Scarlet_Kerouac wrote:
My love and I are together in a brand new relationship that is full of romance, fun, light, love and laughter. Any challenges we face we are able to solve easily by working together.

Great. Then concentrate on that and only on that.

Scarlet_Kerouac · 6/10/2016 1:42 pm

Thanks Sanshi. Struggling a bit today and feel a bit far away from the right mind state today, still feleling much better generally in myself than before though. I just feel like my logical mind keeps trying to talk me down, and tell me that the girl he's currently seeing is a better match etc for him and that he already said he can't see himself being romantically involved with me again and has said so several times as he took a while getting over me he can't go back to that way of thinking about me..that we both need to move onwards and upwards and to do that we shouldn;t even think about getting back together as it'd be 'unhealthy' to think that way..really sucks! I guess I'm scared in case it's not possible to come back from him saying all that in such a confirmed way, he made it sound so very final. I was shocked that he was so firm about it and this all only happened about 2 weeks ago. I do talk back to these thoughts but I hate that my own mind is doing this to me..

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Sanshi · 6/10/2016 3:18 pm

Maybe that helps: http://veronicaloa.boardhost.com/viewtopic.php?pid=27560#p27560

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