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alright. So deactivated EVERY way of talking with her. LEGIT NC. Here we go...
... good idea?
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RollingRock33 wrote:
alright. So deactivated EVERY way of talking with her. LEGIT NC. Here we go...
... good idea?
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Best idea you've ever had! ๐๐ผ
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Cherished wrote:
RollingRock33 wrote:
alright. So deactivated EVERY way of talking with her. LEGIT NC. Here we go...
... good idea?ย
Best idea you've ever had! ๐๐ผ
Thank you.ย
So she doesn't reach out. At all to people. What if she doesnt reachout? Do I contact her after a certain amouunt f time?ย
This will be tough but I have to do ti.
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RollingRock33 wrote:
Cherished wrote:
RollingRock33 wrote:
alright. So deactivated EVERY way of talking with her. LEGIT NC. Here we go...
... good idea?ย
Best idea you've ever had! ๐๐ผThank you.ย
So she doesn't reach out. At all to people. What if she doesnt reachout? Do I contact her after a certain amouunt f time?ย
This will be tough but I have to do ti.
ย
It sounds like you're already telling yourself that she won't reach out. No contact works wonders for some when trying to feel better. If you feel centered after a certain amount of time, contacting her would be fine.
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angeldust4 wrote:
RollingRock33 wrote:
Cherished wrote:
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Best idea you've ever had! ๐๐ผThank you.ย
So she doesn't reach out. At all to people. What if she doesnt reachout? Do I contact her after a certain amouunt f time?ย
This will be tough but I have to do ti.
ยIt sounds like you're already telling yourself that she won't reach out. No contact works wonders for some when trying to feel better. If you feel centered after a certain amount of time, contacting her would be fine.
Thank you Ah yes. Good. Caught me mid-overthinking. Thank you!
I might ask her to spend time with me on my brithday in August. And until them, NC. I just hope she won't be mad that I justย stopped contacting her. But then again, if she is, it shows she cares, so... ... but if she doesn't o.O
But from what others say, NC works wonders! Fingers crossed!!
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I'm finding it a bit tough atm too but no contact is definitely helping - I've actually blocked him on facebook as any reminders was distracting me too much, I did explain to him first why I did it though. And this is after a year of us being back n forth in contact - I wasn't able to let go. I have moments of doubt as I asked for him back a few weeks ago when I found out he's seeing someone now (See my story on the 25 day challenge) So yeah it's hard sometimes to believe after what he said. I'm just doing my best to cancel out those thoughts or let them drift away when they come up. Some days are easier than others...
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Also, I wouldn't even think right now of asking her to spend time with you on your birthday etc right now as that's still holding on tooย much I think?ย I'm sure it can/will happen though!ย Just focus on what you're doing in the here and now and your thoughts/vibration.
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Thank you Scarlet!
I'm trying to stay up-beat, but I'm just so scared that throughout this space, she'll end up seeing someone else. I need to try to find a way to believe without a shadow of a doubt, that the LoA works, as Veronica says, 100% of the time
Gotta stay positive!