Well, my situation is 'worse' than yours and I just refuse to believe I've been forgotten. I KNOW I haven't been forgotten because he told me only two months ago but we broke up a year ago and he's been with a 'girl friend' ever since but from the get go I decided, no. No, she is not me so he cannot just forget me for her. I think of the times I got new boyfriends, I never 'forgot' my old ones while I was with the new ones. I actually do believe every relationship is totally unique. The relationships I've had have never been similar to each other. I've had different feelings even, different experiences. The best thing for you to do I would say personally is to block him. Block or at least delete as a friend or do something where you stop seeing what he's doing. People do things on social media all the time that are just for show, not real, but to you it feels real and it's hurting you. The only way for LOA to work is for you to be in a good vibration with no resistance, that's it. You have to be in a place where you wake up feeling nice, where you don't really care if he's texted or not texted and you can go about your day without feeling negative or upset over him even once. You want all the thoughts and energy you have towards him to be purely positive. So you have to do whatever you can to get to that place.

Last edited by ShootingStar (6/07/2016 7:57 pm)

I got you. I was doing what you did before. And guess what, I created more i dont want! I even have my guy's social media password and i can always login to see his posts and private messages. Let me tell you this really gives you more resistance!! When you visualize being in love with him you would be reminded by WHAT YOU SAW FROM social media or what you knew from his current situation. It really makes your visualization even harder.  But I am over it now. Because I understand if i live as if I have him, would I even bother to check his profile? I will just be happy doing other things. If you feel you miss him, practice unconditional love, send him heart energy and release all your emotions to him. You may also want to study bentinho massaro's 'parallel realities', try to understand your visualization are realities, but they have to manifest only when your state of being is in the vibration that is able to receive the manifestation as  physical reality. If you truly understand your visualizations are reality you really would not care about the current physical reality, or at least care less about it. You can do it! 

Last edited by r8lovable (6/08/2016 4:26 am)

Scarlet_Kerouac wrote:

Yep I tend to wake up with negative way of thinking and the current reality sorta hitting me all over again, not sure how to stop that happening. :/ I did block him which has helped..but also there's this niggling worry of should I have done that? I did say to him I wasn't doing it in a horrible way and there are stil other ways to reach me etc.I guess I'm just not there yet with living 'as if' and ignoring the current reality, at least not consistently enough quite yet.

I can totally relate to that feeling. Lately I've been trying to be really conscious and aware of what makes me feel good. So the idea of blocking him didn't make me feel good. I sucked it up and didn't do it. I knew I would have probably made those feelings worse within myself.  I'm somehow at the point where I don't look at his profile anymore. It just kind of happened. Considering the fact that I was going on Facebook and looking at his profile throughout the day, I somehow was able to discipline myself and get that down to once a day if that. It's still not good for me to be looking, but it's progress from where it was, for sure.

I did get a text the other day, but I didn't respond. It wasn't the text I wanted and I didn't "feel good" about responding. So I just gave gratitude for receiving it, and I know I will manifest the exact text or phone call. He knows I read it though. I know he'll text again, my vibrations have been much higher lately, so I'm just spending time preparing the way and not getting discouraged if I don't hear from him. 

I think the text I did get was more of a sign that he's coming back into my life and that he's thinking about me. It may not have been meant to be responded to, at least not right away. I'm continuously thankful that I was able to manifest a text in general though.