Sanshi wrote:

r8lovable wrote:

. I don't feel very surprised [...]

Everyone, I need some advice from you guys. Is it an echo from the past?

You answered your own question. You expected it to happen, you maybe had fear it would happen and there it is. I don't think it's a big deal but that's easy to say if you are not in the situation. I can understand that it hurts and you want to take some action now to make things better but you can't. The best thing you can do is shift your focus on wanted things.
I can't say if you should accept it or not but I know that it gets harder to attract someone when you hold the belief that he hates you. So maybe it's best to agree and just continue with your vibrational work. If you know he wouldn't hate you if you don't accept it then do that but don't think too much about divorce. You want the love vibration and not the divorce vibration, right?
 

True!!!

r8lovable wrote:

Sanshi wrote:

r8lovable wrote:

. I don't feel very surprised [...]

Everyone, I need some advice from you guys. Is it an echo from the past?

You answered your own question. You expected it to happen, you maybe had fear it would happen and there it is. I don't think it's a big deal but that's easy to say if you are not in the situation. I can understand that it hurts and you want to take some action now to make things better but you can't. The best thing you can do is shift your focus on wanted things.
I can't say if you should accept it or not but I know that it gets harder to attract someone when you hold the belief that he hates you. So maybe it's best to agree and just continue with your vibrational work. If you know he wouldn't hate you if you don't accept it then do that but don't think too much about divorce. You want the love vibration and not the divorce vibration, right?
 

True! I probably projected it the divorce should happen because he requested it since a few months ago and his mother was involved to urge him many times, and that  mistress too, and all the forces made me 'believed' it had to happen, so it happened. I want to eliminate this belief by shifting my focus. I need to put it aside and follow Veronica's advice. I think it is not easy but easier now after practicing LOA.  I actually had a thought when the moment I got the divorce summon that ' he is determined to be mine so why I should care what happened right now' . I am now a lot calmer and it will only get better. I need to find myself back.
Thank you everyone! 

You are on the right track. You can do it. <3

Sanshi wrote:

Aw, just found this Neville quote and thought it fits perfectly for your situation:

“I ask you to take me seriously. Imagination will fulfill itself, so do not limit yourself by anything that is now happening, no matter what it is.”

 
Aww such a wonderful quote! This made my day! Circumstance is really not important imagination is my reality I gotta remember remember and remember! Thanks sanshi!!

ShootingStar wrote:

I was reading an article today on rekindling old loves and it mentioned how people do sometimes divorce to get remarried. One famous couple would be Elizabeth Taylor and Richard Burton. The article did also mention that rekindling a relationship is easier if the break up was amicable or at least not fueled with too much drama or negativity. I watched another video today on emotions and how you can use your emotions to your benefit and to create deeper bonds, so if you feel that this is a moment to express your true emotions and feelings to this person, then it might be wise to do so. Just because he has sent papers does not mean that he has no feelings left for you, in fact, it takes a long time to really wipe a person from your physical and mental memory. Even when we fall out with people and we want to leave the relationship or friendship, it takes a while after we actually leave physically that we leave mentally. We still will love that person in some way because we were once so closely connected to them and that can't just be forgotten. 

awww thanks shootingstar for sharing your knowledge! I almost bursted into tears when I read this. Yes, you are right!! People DO GET REMARRIED ALL THE TIME! So, why should I care about that piece of legal paper? I just need to remember he loves me he loves me he loves me and never have doubts about this. Forget about his mother and that mistress. Thats why he would avoid seeing me that reminds him of our old memories together. The last time he met me he cried a lot but he insisted that he wanted to move on because he wasnt happy in the relationship, but I know that meeting me causes him a lot of dramas in his new relationship because he attempted to forget about me. I totally believe in LOA now. I know I attracted that result when I had really low vibration and doubts and was desperate before the breakup happened. I remember how I attracted him years ago. I was a lot into a romantic drama and the characters, and kept imagining scenes from that drama for a several months, and then he came into my life! He was from a totally different background that I would not imagine I could have a chance to meet him, but it happened! And we spent years of romance together. He is really the one I want and I was his dream girl thats why we decided to get married! So, now I learn about LOA, it is about me, myself, and I. I just need to become the person who has the result of having him back in my life. If I could attract him into my life before, I can attract him back now too. Thank you shootingstar!!!

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