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- Warrior
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Having a desire
Dear all,
I have a very interesting question and I hope you guys can help me out:
Veronica said having The desire to be with someone means that it is in the other person as well,otherwise you would not have that desire.
However, one of my exes has the desire to be with me but I don't want him at all.
So the desire is NOT mine too, at least not right now.
And I want another ex of mine but not the one who wants me.
So what is it with the desire?
Is veronica right or did I misunderstood something?
She believed she could, so she did.
- justme
- Helper
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Re: Having a desire
Hey, the way that I see this is that on the outside you have no desire for this guy, but somewhere inside you there is. Its just that you are desiring this other guy more right now.
I think this is what is meant by buffering time. Or the guy that desires you, doesn't mean or want it 100% or he is having a lot of doubt and resistance (probably due to you saying you don't have the desire for him)
You even said yourself "at least not right now" lol. So who knows what might happen. Anything is possible in the world.
And it is the same as the ex that you want. You might be having too much resistance, limited beliefs, or doubt.
When people on here say "Love yourself" they are telling the truth. Once you are truly happy in yourself and by yourself then the resistance and doubt will vanish. Then your desire will show up when you least expect it as you won't be thinking too much about them as you living your life to the full and focusing on you.
If anyone wants to add or disagree then feel free.
Hope this helps.
- Sanshi
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Re: Having a desire
I got back with an ex. I ended things with him and was over him within maybe 2 weeks. I thought I would never be with him again. But when we got in contact again something hit me and we were back together within days. I broke up with my then bf because of him.
I personally think that you can't feel your desire to be with him because he don't believe in a relationship with you when you see it in an "one reality worldview". But I prefer the thought that all possible realities exist on different frequencies. So in your reality you don't have the desire to be with him. If he would use LoA he would switch to a reality in which you have the desire to be with him but you wouldn't be conscious of being with him because you are on a frequency where you two are not together.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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