I've come to the realization of some things from my most recent relationship. Problems arise in the fall, we break up springish, get back together end of July/August. This has happened 3 times in 6 years, and has been the same every time. It's really weird. I used to think negatively, and am now a more positive person. Is this all in my head or have I been subconsciously manifesting this? How do I stop this?