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5/29/2016 1:25 pm  #1


Need help please. Resistance.

Hi all, thank you for reading and helping me.

I have been doing really well recently, but this evening I had to drive past my true loves house. I saw that in her driveway was the guy who she is seeing's car.ย 

I was ok at first but now an hour later it is just eating at me a little.ย 

I can not keep thinking about his car there. I have no idea what they are doing inside obviously. But the image of his car outside her house is with me all the time. This time what I usually say, is not taking away the pain I am feeling right now. I got home and put on my favorite tv show to try get my mind off it but even this is not working.ย 

In all honesty from me, I do think about them together and his car outside a lot of times throughout the day. I usually manage to get rid of the thought for a bit but it always comes back. It appears that this is what I am focusing on mostly throughout the days. I do still imaging me and my true love getting married having children and reconciling as well as many other things that we will be doing once we are back together. But the though of them 2 and his car is superseding my positive thoughts at the mo.

Its starting to get me down a little. I can't seem to focus on anything else right now.ย ย 

Can anyone help me out please. I need it.ย ย 

Thank you all.ย 

 

5/29/2016 3:30 pm  #2


Re: Need help please. Resistance.

Sam wrote:

Try working on raising your vibration in any way that you can. Even if it has nothing to do with him. As your vibe raises, those negative thoughts will naturally become less prominent, and more positive ones will eventually replace them. ๐Ÿ’œ

I second this! Go into self soothing mode, watch a film you love read a book do something that makes you happy for as long as it takes for your vibe to adjust. Even if you can get to a neutral place only.

Someone I know who got her love back through some bumps said "it doesn't or didn't matter what was going on in our time apart, because when we got back together in the end none of it even mattered, because us being together in the end was just right".

Last edited by rosetinted (5/29/2016 3:32 pm)

 

5/30/2016 1:53 pm  #3


Re: Need help please. Resistance.

Focus on YOU. ย Don't give this bloke a thought. ย RoseTinted has some really good advice in the thread above. ย Focus on what makes you feel happy independently of your girlfriend. ย Seriously it does work. You need to take your mind off it and distance yourself from negative thoughts, but don't focus on this guy at all.


Be a flamingo in a flock of pigeons.
 

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