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The only tidbit that would still worry me right now is the fact that she says she "has absolutely no feelings for me anymore". But I'm sure this can change
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Oh, and when she dropped me off back home, she wanted to make sure I got in the house before leaving, so it shows she cares! - She had to pee really badly and waited for me to open the garage door and get in my house lol. Good sign, yes?
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It is, but really β my advice is to stop looking for signs and validations that she still likes you and cares.
I'm glad your coffee went well, but now is your time to work on you β take some time out from her, work on yourself, read lots of LoA stuff and immerse yourself in it β try manifesting things other than to do with your love life, have fun with it. This will be a process that takes weeks and months, not days. The only way - the ONLY way - you'll be back in a relationship with her is if you ditch your fears and anxieties and you're the best version you can be of yourself. Once she feels vibrationally you're at that level (and this can be felt without any contact), that's when it will happen.
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pectinase wrote:
It is, but really β my advice is to stop looking for signs and validations that she still likes you and cares.
I'm glad your coffee went well, but now is your time to work on you β take some time out from her, work on yourself, read lots of LoA stuff and immerse yourself in it β try manifesting things other than to do with your love life, have fun with it. This will be a process that takes weeks and months, not days. The only way - the ONLY way - you'll be back in a relationship with her is if you ditch your fears and anxieties and you're the best version you can be of yourself. Once she feels vibrationally you're at that level (and this can be felt without any contact), that's when it will happen.
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This π―
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Thanks so much guys!!
I've been high-vibing like CRAZY! And visualizing. I'm so happy with my visualizations! Thanks for everything, guys.Β
I was sick today, and I updated my Facebook status, telling as such.
She messaged me, saying, "What happened? If you need anything please let me know! I hope you;re feeling better!!"
She never offers to do things for me, like that, "as friends". wowa.
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I just replied, "thank you. I can't talk right now though, I'll talk to you later"
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Just stick with NC right now.
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Cherished wrote:
It's only been one day. You really have to learn to be completely independent, without her.
I raise my hand for this one.
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Cherished wrote:
Which part of NO CONTACT do you not understand?
I was pondering on the same thing.