I haven't find the perfect way to go about this yet but for me it helps to think in two different realities. There is the (now) physical reality on one hand and the vibrational on the other. I can choose on which one I set my focus. I know that the now vibrational reality will be the physical reality one day and it feels better to focus on it, so I do that. I don't really like when people say you should ignore reality because I can't ignore it when I see it every day. For me it is more to know that it is not real, that it is not stable and that it has no value to focus on the physical anymore. Don't be interested so much in your physical reality as long as you don't love it.

Last edited by Sanshi (5/28/2016 5:40 am)

It's not that you need to stop flowing into your physical reality.

You need to stop looking at your physical reality and seeing doom and gloom. You need to change your perception of your current reality.

Learn stillness, acceptance and awareness. They will be the powerful tools that will keep you steady through any unwanted period in life.

Totally agree with Oasiscalm. In order to reach the state where you can be a good manifester (creating stuff you want on purpose without creating stuff you do or do not want by 'accident' ) you need to achieve an inner peace. You don't really need to be over the top positive, but you do need to create a balance inside of you. You need to get to a place where you are uneffected by the condition that she 'hates you' or 'doesn't seem to care'. Also, you need to start gaining awareness of how people feel, because you seem to have a lack of understanding about your own emotions and hers. She can't 'hate you' but also 'not care' because if she hates you, then subsequently, she cares, if she doesn't care-she can't hate you. Maybe there were times where you misread her emotions during your relationship? Did she ever get frustrated at you for not understanding her properly? These are things you also have to look at.