Thanks everyone. It took a lot of mental discipline and dedication to the exercises to get this far. Once I began to relax and just live my life everything fell into place. To the point that I now know what the Universe is doing. When I saw him yesterday it was so weird.

I was on the bus and I had this weird feeling he was going to be out of work early, the bus goes down the path he takes home. Then some traffic came up with it was close to my job.

I felt like it was the Universe's doing just so we can meet up. Then he texted me and I was just like, "I knew it." Once I got close to my stop he just got there too. I see now how the Universe works with me. It is so weird because every feeling I get is always right.

He seemed so much more relaxed and at ease now that we are together again. Also, he even asked me on date tomorrow, so I can't wait to go out with him. For awhile I have been wanting to go on a date with him again. I was just admiring his smiling face, he is like a happy child.

So my greatest advice when it comes to attracting your ex back, first forgive both your partner and yourself for the past, then let go of all the resistance you have with them, then start to enjoy yourself and relax as the universe delivers and really act from a place of love. There is something about centering yourself from your heart that is very powerful.

happyinlove wrote:

I need your help I just end up in the same situation as before...he seems to be using me for sex... Its my fault I mean I want to sleep with him too. I know it starts with no contact and not paying attention to now , so i know the steps. It just seems like he loved me so long ago...I am trying to shake the feeling of impossible..he gets protective and stuff but it may just be possessiveness because he likes that I want him ....I just feel impossible right now ...because it feels like i m just a toy..yea i wanted it too I put myself here but i m feeling impossible getting out of it and having him as my boyfriend in the end.. he loved me so deeply before I know that but in the last year it has been sleeping together... 

Does he know how you feel about him?

happyinlove wrote:

I told him I want more he said he loves me but is not in love with me, he feels bad about what we do, but he does not want me that way... I want him though... he loved me deeply before he can love me again?

The truth is you need to be the one to make him love you that way. You see, when you send them out energy of love, that same love transpires to you. It's like a back and forth motion because you are sending energy to each other. When you believe that they are in love you, that message gets sent to them, the feeling starts to grow in them and then they will love you that way.

But you also need to keep reminding him that it hurts you still because you only go through with sex because you love him. As well as if he loved you, then he wouldn't do that to you. I am not denying his feelings, I am telling you he needs to be aware that if he says he loves you then he should not take advantage of you that way.

So happy for you!!

Wowww!!! So happy for you!!!