Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum » Healing a Friendship

Mage · 9/02/2015 6:29 pm

Hello everyone!

I was attracted to this forum for its positive content and membership.

As the title signifies, I'm in search of guidance on how to heal a most dear friendship, which means so very much to me. It's long distance, I was the last one to reach out and it has yet to be reciprocated. Something unwanted occured (better not repeat the old story). I've done a lot of chasing, apologising and attempting to make things work for quite some time. Now for a new and superior approach.

I believe we create our realities and relations - romantic and platonic - are also our own creations.

Most of the advice here seems to apply for the romance category, and I'm curious if anyone could advise me on techiques to implement, steps to follow, etcetera?

I keep trying to stay positive, but there is an awareness of doubts, fear and sadness. Can I make a difference? I thought joining here would help inspire the dedication required to transform my reality, and be encouraging for anyone looking to do the same, as I'd like to document progress and share.

I would greatly appreciate any and all guidance, thank you! Well wishes and hugs to all!

Cherished · 9/02/2015 8:05 pm

Yes you absolutely can turn things around, 100%. It doesn't matter what kind of relationship it is, it only matters what YOU think about it..

So first you need to try to forget what happened in the past, then recreate the friendship as you want it to me. Write it out. And focus on that. Send the person lots of loving thoughts, and they will eventually feel that energy and reflect it back to you. It really works, I've had enormous success with this process 😘

Mage · 9/03/2015 10:11 pm

Thank you for this delightful response, Cherished.

This gives me a great feeling of hope.

The past doesn't matter, as long as I focus anew? Thank you, I will be implementing this combination of writing and thought-sending. Have you? Do you have any examples? It's always so amazing to read succeses!

Something inside me has been suggesting to me to make moves to be noticed by this friend, in a way that could work and bring them close to me again, but I don't know if it's too soon or if it would not be received well. I'm not sure. Ideally I'd enjoy for them to reach to me.

Cherished · 9/03/2015 10:53 pm

I have so many examples! work colleagues that used to be quite nasty.. NO they weren't, I just created it! I changed the way I felt about MYSELF, and affirmed daily that I was a wonderful colleague, I have amazing ideas and energy, and people are so lucky to be working with me! And I stopped thinking that I was a victim, and realised that I was creating their responses to me! So I imagined them always being very respectful and generous and kind towards me, and including me in everything. Well, things are now FABULOUS, and just the other day one of them said to me "I'm so proud of you, you have come so far in the time that I've been here!"

The biggest success has been my guy. He went from no contact and completely blocking/ignoring me to out of the blue contacting me saying "OMG, I don't know what I was thinking, I'm so sorry, I love you!" We are a work in progress, and have other (geographical) challenges that I need to dissolve with my thoughts too, but he is now telling me at least every other day how much he loves me, is going crazy for me, adores me, needs me desperately... U know 😍😍

MrsPlaha · 9/04/2015 4:39 am

Cherished wrote:
I have so many examples! work colleagues that used to be quite nasty.. NO they weren't, I just created it! I changed the way I felt about MYSELF, and affirmed daily that I was a wonderful colleague, I have amazing ideas and energy, and people are so lucky to be working with me! And I stopped thinking that I was a victim, and realised that I was creating their responses to me! So I imagined them always being very respectful and generous and kind towards me, and including me in everything. Well, things are now FABULOUS, and just the other day one of them said to me "I'm so proud of you, you have come so far in the time that I've been here!"

The biggest success has been my guy. He went from no contact and completely blocking/ignoring me to out of the blue contacting me saying "OMG, I don't know what I was thinking, I'm so sorry, I love you!" We are a work in progress, and have other (geographical) challenges that I need to dissolve with my thoughts too, but he is now telling me at least every other day how much he loves me, is going crazy for me, adores me, needs me desperately... U know 😍😍

Cherished, I think you should write a LOA book about all your success stories including your cat! It would do so well! 😀 and of course about all your tevhniques you used! Totally an inspiration 😊

Cherished · 9/04/2015 5:07 am

The cat was the best one though, right?! I laugh about it every time I see him, and he loves me so much now lol!! 😍

Mage · 9/05/2015 10:32 am

Cherished wrote:
I have so many examples! work colleagues that used to be quite nasty.. NO they weren't, I just created it! I changed the way I felt about MYSELF, and affirmed daily that I was a wonderful colleague, I have amazing ideas and energy, and people are so lucky to be working with me! And I stopped thinking that I was a victim, and realised that I was creating their responses to me! So I imagined them always being very respectful and generous and kind towards me, and including me in everything. Well, things are now FABULOUS, and just the other day one of them said to me "I'm so proud of you, you have come so far in the time that I've been here!"

The biggest success has been my guy. He went from no contact and completely blocking/ignoring me to out of the blue contacting me saying "OMG, I don't know what I was thinking, I'm so sorry, I love you!" We are a work in progress, and have other (geographical) challenges that I need to dissolve with my thoughts too, but he is now telling me at least every other day how much he loves me, is going crazy for me, adores me, needs me desperately... U know 😍😍

Wooow, that's really so incredible! You changed all your colleagues just like that? Very well done! You're an absolute champion at this! It's so inspiring to know anything and everything can be changed with the appropriate thoughts and visualizations.

Your outstanding success with your guy really convinces me anything can be turned around. It's beautiful. Many, many congratulations! Did you use the same processes for him as for your work colleagues?

Thank you for the reminder I'm no victim. That thought alone is entire relief.

So... first change feelings about self. Does any of this sound good?

I'm an amazing friend, I am loveable, loved and appreciated. My time, company and contact is always enjoyed, received warmly and sought out.

I really agree with you, Baby!

Thank you and many blessings!

Mage · 9/07/2015 4:10 pm

(I hope it's okay that I post again.)

Is it enough to not think about someone and purely focus on feeling good?

Vera · 9/07/2015 4:34 pm

@Mage, VISUALIZE and IMAGINE seeing, touching, feeling, and hearing your desired outcome. Visualization is very powerful. Also, keep in mind that you are a walking magnet that attracts WHO YOU ARE. And so to attract your desires , amazing people, and the best experiences, you ALWAYS have to vibrate in the HIGHEST vibrations.

While keeping your desires in mind through visualization, it is important to be mindful of your thoughts and feelings at any time. To raise your vibrations INSTANTLY, say THANK YOU for everything that you have, see, hear, taste, and feel right now. And LOVE everything around you, whoever you are with, whatever you're doing, and most importantly, YOURSELF. Love all about you. Magic will happen.

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Mage · 9/07/2015 8:28 pm

Vera wrote:
@Mage, VISUALIZE and IMAGINE seeing, touching, feeling, and hearing your desired outcome. Visualization is very powerful. Also, keep in mind that you are a walking magnet that attracts WHO YOU ARE. And so to attract your desires , amazing people, and the best experiences, you ALWAYS have to vibrate in the HIGHEST vibrations.

While keeping your desires in mind through visualization, it is important to be mindful of your thoughts and feelings at any time. To raise your vibrations INSTANTLY, say THANK YOU for everything that you have, see, hear, taste, and feel right now. And LOVE everything around you, whoever you are with, whatever you're doing, and most importantly, YOURSELF. Love all about you. Magic will happen.

Thank you for the exceptional advice Vera! I really appreciate this, I'll make sure to apply. Time for some magic!

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