Imagine for a moment that you never had a relationship with this person before ever, so you never had a break up, and you saw this person on the street and then maybe got to notice them more but never had a proper conversation yet. Imagine it was just you thinking 'that person is so attractive, he has a lovely smile, I bet he likes (list the things you know he does like) and I bet us in a relationship would be like (think about your ideal relationship with this person' and then just feel excited that he exists and has popped into your universe. Try to just remove the past for now, only using it in your benefit, aka you know what his body is actually like and you know the sound of his voice and you know what it's like to kiss him, you know how to make him laugh and you know what turns him on and the feeling of you two falling in love. Imagine all those things but pretend that you actually have not had the experience before. Then, using your actual knowledge of the fact he did fall for you, think 'I bet he would fall for me, I bet he would really like me' and then just keep that in you Let him become more of a figment of your imagination for now than the person who's saying things you don't like or doing things. I would go no contact until you have mastered that and then when he reaches out to you, almost pretend like it's the very first time. You'd be feeling excited, a little shy, flattered that he reached out to you and you'd respond in the right vibration to him to make him feel the same emotions too Or it might not be a reach out, it might be a run-in but you should still keep that fantasy in your head that it's just you running into your crush and it's all fresh and there has been no bad past. People generally don't rekindle while talking about their previous relationship negatively or much at all, people actually tend to rekindle bonding over some of the nice memories but more on how the present feels and I think people who get back together successfully after a long time apart are able to naturally treat it like the first time because so much time really has passed that they don't have negative feelings towards each other anymore and also revert back to feeling a little awkward and shy and nervous as if it was the first time again. And then that's why the first kiss and first time back in bed are so electric

PixelPie wrote:

Creeeeestal wrote:

I have stayed true to my routine, my intentions, my visualizations, and my affirmations. I'm even dabbling in remote seduction. I worry a bit, because nothing has manifested yet. I love reading success stories, and I have fear that the argument my ex and I had during our last conversation, was the last time I will ever receive contact from him. 

My mother told me today that he has told her again that he never loved me. This can't be true, because when this happened the first time, he talked to me for an hour about how it wasn't true, and that wasn't what he told her. She can't prove to me now that he's reached out to her again. Social media is showing evidence that he is pursuing other women. I know that I need to stay off social media and I am making a conscious effort to do so. 

I don't know why right now I am filled with all of this worry, but as I type this, I am taking deep breaths. I could really use some words of encouragement, and if you have any suggestions on what you guys do to let go of something completely to the universe, I mean really let go, because I will say that I let go but then nothing will manifest, meaning there's something subconsciously that's not connecting. Any tips would be great, or just some nice words of support or encouragement. I know that the only truth that matters is my truth.

I know of people who have gotten back together after years of separation. I've heard of people who have moved on and seen other people, who have gotten back together. I have heard so many success stories, some that had come from circumstances worse than mine. And they were success stories. I want to, and I will be a success story too. 

Real letting go(of the the worry fear doubt ) comes with time don't rush yourself. Just take it one day at a time nothing is lost. You must build your faith in yourself that what you are doing is working even while you can not see it. To do this the easy way try doing the experiments challenge page posted by Cherished or use the same thing you're doing on you guy on a random guy you know and have easy access to so you can see the effects in person.

You're absolutely right. I decided to make a list of 7 things (easy things) that I want to manifest over the next week or so. I also have the book E Squared by Pam Grout as well. I read through it and am ready to start playing around with the experiments in the book. Veronica has also told me I need to believe in myself more, even the other life coach I'm working with. There's some hidden part of me that I still need to work on, because she doesn't believe in me. I'm working on her though. This part of me is made of my fears and counter intentions. 

Perhaps when it comes to my ex for now, i should stick to the 10 minute visualizations in the 25 day challenge since I'm still in the process of it. I am on day 20 and I know that more results are going to come. I think what i need to do is work more on manifesting other things...easier things, and just rest and have faith that my biggest desire, a new relationship with my ex/the love of my life, is coming into my life. Just trust it.