justme wrote:

Hi all, I am eternally grateful for all the help on this forum and all the help on this matter.

I have been studying LOA for a few weeks now to mainly get my lost love back. They ended it in march and we have had limited contact until last weekend.

I truly 100% believe in the LOA. Due to my own vibration that caused my lost love to leave. I was insecure, thought they could do better accused them of meeting someone else and guess what, now it appears they are seeing someone else now!! I truly believe I manifested this. My vibration was at an all time low. I do keep thinking now and again thay she has met someone else and think they are together now hsving fun,  but I try my best to think "they are mine. We are together. They only truly love me. They miss me" And see us together happy.

Now after the last few weeks I have become happier since finding loa. Thinking positive,giving gratitude everywhere. People have stated they have seen I big change in me. Some were a little worried about me being the person I am becoming.

I am needing much help with actual visualization please.

I have been using lanie stevens pussy whipped method for a few days now. But I just can not visualize things. I get a quick mental picture of my lost love and then I don't seem to be able to hold that for more then a second or 2.

This is not just the only thing I struggle with. It's anything. I can imagine anything for a second and then it goes. I just can keep any image in my mind. This worries me a little.

Can anyone help me with this? It is during any time not just when trying Lanie's method.

When I do it. I can hear my lost love saying things and then I say what I want, and I get a huge tingling sensation, raised heart beat and my stomach starts to spasm. Then when I give my love and happiness and come out of meditation them feeling go.

Thank you for reading this. Any help is greatly appriciated.

Love to you all.

I actually have been in the same boat as you with the story. So I wrote like a story on how I do things. Though it was cherished (who def read her posts she's like a deity among people) that said we hand them a script of what we focus on. So if anything give her a new script, and remember she has to read it so it may not happen supper supper fast but it may just believe she is reading it).

And I have the same thing with the pussy whip method but I trust in myself knowing if I'm feeling good that must be a great sign, otherwise I would feel frustrated and think it's work rather than joy and love to do it.

I also do the sound byte were I record myself having my visual and listen to it (it's like guided meditation but you're hearing yourself so it's like you're listening to your journal as if it happening or it just happen. So close your eyes and slowly draw around you so to speak.) like if I gave you a crayon (remember it can help to have a child like belief-said and it is done) and draw the essence of where you want to be in your visual. Doesn't have to be perfect but when I think of my favorite place (Disney) I draw a shitty ass castle but I can see the outlines and Mickey ears and my love who I can make out his aura and goofy smile and it makes me estastic.
It may not be like a movie perfect scene but I'm there with him and it makes me feel good. Like I turn beat red from smiling and sometimes a little happy tear. So my inner source is going "**** yeah we are at Disney and were so happy and were together and being 5 again" Remember feels and vibes say more than anything at least from what I gather.

Also affirmations if they bring a smile to your face. I write and say my in the mirror while dancing it's a great boost for my alignment (again it's each to their own).

If anything w Lanie's I found it helpful to take a little bit from Veronica as she said something like "play it like a memory, you may not have a clear picture but you have the energy and essence."
You remember a certain time you guys were walking together or she was walking towards you? Do a little bit of art 101 and copy and paste it. Even if you start to slowly draw in the dark know she's still there cause you're feeling good. remember Lanie's thing is only 5 minutes so don't feel like you need to do it like a meditation or visual which can be longer

Your universe and inner source know what you want so don't be too hard on yourself if you can't just get the right picture. Practice (hell we have 25-30 days to play with) I sometimes do Lanie's pussy whip technique 2-3 times because it brings me joy and I get to wrap my arms around my man. Is it like "omg it's a tv perfect picture of him and I see him clear as day" maybe and maybe not but I feel it, and I know he's there, his smile is what i focus on cause it's unique (mine has such a kid full blown happy face that is distinct so I focus on that) take your time w meditation and visuals and have fun when it comes to Lanie's tech cause she even said in her book "even if you might think you didnit correct believe it reach them because they will feel it" something like that. It all about the belief.

Lol I wrote a lot but I hope maybe that will bring some more inspiration or like a ah moment! Or even just like believing in your inner source

Last edited by lemon (5/21/2016 8:43 pm)

Thank you all for your comments. I am eternally grateful. When I do meditate and visualise when I see my lost love and hear them say what I want them to say. I get a feeling like I am being slightly electrocuted, my heart starts to beat more and I start twitching in my heart and stomach. Also when I know I am going to visualise I get a strange cramp tingling feeling in the center of my forehead. It just comes and then once I am done it's gone. Is this strange to you?

Thank you thank you thank you again.

Thank you for your reply. I do write every night something new that my lost love and I will be doing once we are back together but I write it in the present tense!!. It could be walking down the beach hand in hand or just cuddling up on the sofa to getting married. I always write one story at night as it allows me to sleep with a smile on my face and I read it every morning to make me happy for the day after I have given gratitude for being alive every morning.

The writing helps me visualise as I write I can see it clearly then if I was to **** my eyes and visualise.

The writings truly make me feel happy and gives me a warm feeling and a big smile on my face.

Thank you all again for replying to me. I am grateful.

Last edited by justme (5/26/2016 7:55 am)

Thank you for replying. That actually makes 100% sense to me. My true love which they are.

I believe 100% that we will be together again. It's a great feeling.  It does not matter what happens between now and we return. Weather my true love is seeing someone else or not. Which I have been told they are. But I don't feel upset about it. I laugh about it. Knowing that it is just a rebound and that my love and I will be together again.

If there is any more pointer people can tell me about or anymore on what to to I fully appriciate it.

Thanks to you all. Lots of love.