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feeling low and doubtful?
kinda having a low point... can anyone help lift me up? Doubting stuff since No contact
- Creeeeestal
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Re: feeling low and doubtful?
We can uplift each other. Everything will be ok, and everything will work itself out. We need to remember to relax and let the universe deliver. <3
True forgiveness is accepting the apology you have not yet received.
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Re: feeling low and doubtful?
Go hug and play with a dog or a cat! I'm serious.
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Re: feeling low and doubtful?
It's only been one day. You really have to learn to be completely independent, without her.
If you imagine it in your mind..
Believe it in your heart..
Feel it in your soul..
You will hold it in your hand 💞
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Thanks guys.
@Belle, that's a good idea!
@Everyone else, I want to imagine her in my life and believe she's here. Acting as if, but I still feel that lack. Maybe in time I can start feeling like sh'es here with me?
@Cherished, it's only been a day? Wow you're right. I do need ot get better! Darn!
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Imagine it, visualize and give it some gratitude! This is what I tell myself all the time. Instead of crying and focusing on him not being here with me physically right now, I do my very best to think about what's going right. I will write down the fear I'm having, in a forum, or in a journal. But always remember that the fears aren't true. 
In the meantime, like Veronica would say, get yourself happy and relax.
True forgiveness is accepting the apology you have not yet received.
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Thanks guys.
@Belle, that's a good idea!
@Everyone else, I want to imagine her in my life and believe she's here. Acting as if, but I still feel that lack. Maybe in time I can start feeling like sh'es here with me?
@Cherished, it's only been a day? Wow you're right. I do need ot get better! Darn!Yes it has been only one day and we know it can feel like forever when you are not use to not talking to your love. We've all felt that at some point. But it's ok. If you feel like you will fall just talk to us like you right now is better then continued contact atm. ☺
1st step before you try any vizualizing, scripting, etc. You need to work on forgiving the whole thing ☺ and on feeling better in/and by yourself before you can work on getting her back. So let's work on getting your vibe up ☺.
Thank you
I'm trying to keep my vibe up to keep the hope that I can get her back even with no contact. Logically, it feels hopeless, but if LOA does work, I have to be able to do ti. Just kinda nervous 
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So some days I feel very happy and upbeat, but I still find my situation to be impossible... how do I get over that feeling, even though I'm happy? I just can't see her coming back... I try to trick myself into believing I can, but it doesn't work that wya.
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Re: feeling low and doubtful?
Like others have suggested, you just really need to get yourself feeling better/good. Don't even worry about her or whether she is coming back or not. If you think it's impossible, then it is impossible. If you think it's easy, then it is easy. You are not going through anything that anyone else on here hasnt gone through. You just need to worry about you, improve your self love and confidence and you build faith with that momentum.
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Like others have suggested, you just really need to get yourself feeling better/good. Don't even worry about her or whether she is coming back or not. If you think it's impossible, then it is impossible. If you think it's easy, then it is easy. You are not going through anything that anyone else on here has gone through. You just need to worry about you, improve your self love and confidence and you build faith with that momentum.
That's the thing I don't get. I'm feeling confident and I do love myself. I feel great. But then when she comes to mind, with the current situation, my stomach turns to knots... So I'm just confused how to work on myself if I'm already, to me, feeling awesome.
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