ShootingStar wrote:

iinikkii wrote:

No one is disagreeing that that has happened for others. It seems as tho you (Shootingstar) always have some sort of arguement towards me and my intentions and my beliefs. Almost as tho you are trying to push your limitations/ and or beliefs on me. So I do ask you kindly that if you could only post/reply with encouraging statements that back my beliefs about MY creation, that would be awesome! Otherwise, I would appreciate if you didn't respond at all. I say that only out of love 😁 .. It's just that sometimes your responses make me wobble. ( less and less here recently, bc I'm becoming more and more confident, but nevertheless.. Only positivity please!! 😘

I read this today and I have to admit I got totally confused but then I thought of something and I feel it's the missing link in your predicament ! You think I have an argument against your beliefs or that I'm trying to push my limitations on you when actually, I don't really recognise your user name that much and I don't remember any other threads you've ever posted and I sort of just reply to threads and posts based on the post and even though I remember a couple of names on here, I really don't recognise yours as much...but I literally only reply to the question posted without any background so I just reply based on the current vibration of the question, the context of the question and I do post positively (like I think I posted a post on here maybe a few times to suggest breaking contact for a while when I felt the situation being posted about was negative and the person was stuck and going down a rocky road) So what that really means I feel for you is that you see my posts, you think 'ugh this person has a thing against me, she's bringing me down, she shouldn't even be on here' but I'm literally saying the positive things that they say to do in manifestations and what really works and letting go to get in the recieving mode is a big step and that's the step I suggested to you in this post, but you misread it as 'forget about it, not going to happen, move on' which is interesting because if you read it negatively it means that you are harbouring that resistance in yourself. If you think I'm out to get you (when I literally don't notice your posts and I'm not out to get anyone or take away from their beliefs, just trying to share the message of abundance and happiness and letting go in getting your manifestation) then it seems that you are projecting that negative side of how you really feel onto me and you're screaming 'NO' which is actually just your resistance. I'm not a guru but I have listened to a lot of Abraham and only the other day realised that the fastest way to get things you want is to intend , believe, have faith, let go. Then as you are preoccupied with something else that's got your attention and it's powerful and positive, your manifestation just casually walks into your life. That's easier to some than it sounds! Because you do need the faith but that means 'letting go and letting God'. There's a really good post on here called 'that man or no man' but I know you would hate it haha. But setting your mind in an abundant mindset, aka, not holding onto one prize, does susbsequently tend to make that prize come along too. But the other way, which I know you want to do, I know, is focusing powerfully but if you focus and want it so much that it hurts, then you're wanting it too much and that causes resistance! If you're on a high and then put the condition of that high on the manifestation and it doesn't come along, then you crash like today and that adds resistance to it. I won't post any more on this thread I know I'm not wanted haha But I really did post this just because I got confused why you thought that about me seeing as I literally don't recall you too much, but then thought 'ahh, maybe her inner resistance demon is the one she is projecting on me, the little demon that also says give up, maybe she could see that if I tell her that I'm not that demon and it's in her head, then it might fade away a little'. 

I was more so refering to you saying I HAVE to date other guys to get my guy, bc that's what you were told by "experts".. And no honey, you're definitely not bringing out the "little demon" .. I'm coming more and more confident by the day,  and really taking EVERYTHING Cherished has said to me and running with it!! My faith is growing and life is just getting bigger and better all the time!

ShootingStar wrote:

I never said anything about having to date anyone or experts saying anything ?i just said that i always notice guys come back when they know i might be taken. Although I did do one thing an expert advised in article a couple of years ago-i wrote a handwritten note to say I'm doing well and for him to call me sometime and 2 weeks later we got back together but he also saw me out with a guy friend of mine he didn't know was just a friend and we were laughing and having fun and he said he really thought he had lost me...so like, do what feels good to you but people are giving you advice and honestly I think dating doesn't tell the universe you don't want the original, otherwise my ex's wouldnt have come back. But only you know what's going on in your universe !

Thank you for your input 😂 I think I'm doing great and am well on my way to my success story!! I'm just going to stick to what is true for me and my beliefs! I am happy not dating other guys, and am confident I don't need to date other guys to get my love back 😘 The universe is limitless and can bring my story to success in such a magical way without other guys having to be involved! 😁😁😁