Maya wrote:

You DID NOT create their pregnancy. He made her pregnant, not you. They create their own reality. It shocks me when I see statements like yours, how could you make her pregnant? Maybe you felt their vibes, felt whats going to happen next, but dont blame yourself for it because it is absurd.
It puzzles me every time when I see someting like this. We are not gods of other peoples destinies. They are masters of their own reality.

This is what people have differing opinions on. If we are not in control of others realities or destinies, then how can we absolutely positively get somebody back to us if they do not want to also? I only accepted I created it because in the teachings here and a lot of other forums, it is said that we have created everything in our reality, including our interactions and situations with others. We are told we created our break ups, divorces, separations, our lovers cheating, being in other relationships, etc, and that only we can attract them back ourselves with our thoughts & vibrations. From the point of view in these posts, we can not create in others realities, which means we did not cause them to cheat or leave or be with anybody else. It doesn't make any sense , & I suppose this is why Cherished told me not to share this, because I felt confident before & now I am hearing completely differing opinions from anything else written on the forum for anybody else and their situations. So we create everything involving everyone else in our realities, except for this? I created my love to have another lover other than me, but not this? Okay. Thank you everyone though I do appreciate it & love the discussions!!

Yup.  This is precisely why I suggested that opening this up to forum would not be helpful for your vibration. The thing is, as I said before.. there are some pieces to this that even Einstein could not explain-and what you are now doing is allowing your vibration to drop with a myriad of conflicting information that you are attracting.  It's impossible for me or anyone else to tell you exactly why and how there is a baby. But there is one. So now, your focus has to be on how you can feel better about the baby and it's father. As any LOA teacher will tell you, the HOW is none of our business. And it's the part that trips people up with their focus. You can spend forever driving yourself crazy over who created what- but that is a pointless exercise. The intricacies of the universe in terms of co-creation are vast, and I for one believe that yes- you can create absolutely anything you desire. In terms of unwanted, I believe that others are here co-creating, and what you fear most can also play out in front of you. In my opinion, you were a match to the unfolding of this event in your life. You had to be, or you wouldn't have experienced it. At the end of the day, and I told you in a PM- it doesn't matter what any of us say. What matters is that YOU take what you want from this situation and forge ahead creating the life you want from here on in.

ShootingStar wrote:

This is just a little curiosity about this situation I was thinking: LaughBella it is still possible to get this exact man back, I mean, in this day and age I would wonder if they are more parents apart than they are together....but it may not be possible if you have an underlying belief that you do not want to split up a family (which is a very good belief, like, it's very selfless and nice of you) but if you didn't have that belief, then your manifestation would still definitely be able to happen just as it would before the pregnancy. Another underlying belief you may have is that you don't really want to be with a man who has a newborn with someone else, or you don't want to have to deal with a baby moma in your life, or you don't like the idea of not being the one to first have his children. Again if you did not have any of these beliefs-your manifestation would be a go I would think ...so I think it is up to you to choose what you want in this law of attraction universe !

 
Nailed it 👍🏼