Furthermore, the reason I titled this with a question mark, is bc I do believe I created this- I thought about it every single day from the moment they got together without any evidence that she was or would be, besides the fact that she already does have another child by someone else- but could it be a possibility that instead of it being that I created it entirely, that I could have really just been intuitively picking up on it or maybe even his or their thoughts and/or vibes of it?

The baby is coming, so it's irrelevant who created what at this point. Perhaps instead of focusing on that, simply understand that you were a vibrational match to that story unfolding. Which you were, because you told that same story over and over. Now, it's entirely up to you what your next move is. And as I suggested, it's probably best to keep this to yourself. Because others' opinions are unnecessary and will only cloud your judgement even more. You know what's best for you, and this is certainly one decision that should be made by you, and you only.

It's not that people don't want to hear. It's that people don't want you to PERPETUATE that vibration. Being an LOA forum, most people here understand emphatically that discussing what you dont want or a reality you want to change.. is really only bringing more of that to you.

Perhaps dropping the subject and focussing on you for a while might help to raise your vibration sufficiently so that your next step becomes clearer. I think it's important to soften your view that you totally created a baby. Because you didn't actually create a child, your ex and his girlfriend did. That's their co-creation. And you were a vibrational match to this occurring in your reality. It doesn't really matter how, and nobody, not even Einstein has been able to explain HOW exactly things are created. The point is, your ex has a baby on the way, and you need to find a way to feel ok about it.

Nobody has suggested you aren't doing well. And the advice you received already is spot on. We are all actually co-creators. And what has come into your reality is a situation where your ex has co-created a baby with someone else. It's a physical manifestation, and the baby is coming. So now it's up to you to decide what feels best for you moving forward. Truly, nobody else can advise you. It's a tricky situation, and not many people will be able to humbly advise a way forward that will satisfy you. What you create from here depends entirely upon your beliefs and your practiced vibration. And again, that's something that only you can drive. The best advice moving forward is to ask yourself what you honestly desire, knowing what you know, and to move towards feeling better.

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Perhaps dropping the subject and focussing on you for a while might help to raise your vibration sufficiently so that your next step becomes clearer. I think it's important to soften your view that you totally created a baby. Because you didn't actually create a child, your ex and his girlfriend did. That's their co-creation. And you were a vibrational match to this occurring in your reality. It doesn't really matter how, and nobody, not even Einstein has been able to explain HOW exactly things are created. The point is, your ex has a baby on the way, and you need to find a way to feel ok about it.

Nobody has suggested you aren't doing well. And the advice you received already is spot on. We are all actually co-creators. And what has come into your reality is a situation where your ex has co-created a baby with someone else. It's a physical manifestation, and the baby is coming. So now it's up to you to decide what feels best for you moving forward. Truly, nobody else can advise you. It's a tricky situation, and not many people will be able to humbly advise a way forward that will satisfy you. What you create from here depends entirely upon your beliefs and your practiced vibration. And again, that's something that only you can drive. The best advice moving forward is to ask yourself what you honestly desire, knowing what you know, and to move towards feeling better.

This is confusing to me, only because you told me I did indeed absolutely manifest this, & that we create whatever appears in our reality completely. So this is sort of opposite of the normal explanations given, unless I am understanding wrong. To say I was a vibrational match to it for it to appear in my reality, does that mean that everything happens anyway, you just don't actually know about it or see it unless you're a match to it? So they'd have a baby all along..I just wouldn't find out until I was a match to finding out.

Also, if we are now talking that everything is co-creation, then doesn't that mean you can never create something involving another person unless they want to create it as well? This can get tricky once we start breaking it down in this way, and is most likely why everyone gets so confused once they start their loa journey- there is never one simple opinion, it Is always conflicting. Lets break it down even further...What if they co-create to be together forever? If they are creating to be together forever, then my trying to co-create with them to get my guy back would never work. And that wouldn't just apply to my situation, but could be anyone's. How can we say everything and anything is possible involving others- if it's all co-creation? That means they are deciding as well- not just you. And furthermore if co-creation, I did not manifest him leaving me for her on my own, he would have also decided that he didn't want to be with me anymore and that he wanted someone else and then they co-created for him to leave me & for them to get together. Can you see how much the idea of co-creation can then make it seem like we aren't in much control at all? That or I am just not understanding, & I can accept that if so.