Milk&Honey wrote:

Craigd88 wrote:

Milk&Honey wrote:

I believe that attachment is not a problem. The problem is what exists behind attachment: no faith. We don't believe that's why we are attached. We try to control. 

Attachment is DANGEROUS ground. Very dangerous. In almost every success story about getting a specific person or ex back, a common theme is the person "moved on". Attachment causes one to worry, doubt, be jealous, and above all: FEAR.

Attachment leads to fear, fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to the dark side. An unattached person will manifest their desires much quicker than one who is attached. Every. Single. Time.

Attachment is a huge problem here. Just look at all the posts on this website and powerlawofattraction.com. People are OBSESSED with their ex! To them its "I want X or no one else. Id rather die than live without X". This obsession is not good and is a very low vibe. Being attached is not love. Unconditional love involves no attachment whatsoever.

Some relationships are nothing but attachments. They are born out of neediness. They end because one or both persons no longer wants to be attached to the other or they find someone else to attach to. This is NOT love.

Yoda is right. You want to manifest someone? Release the attachment and "mourn them do not, miss them do not, rejoice for them". Love them through the eyes of God/Source/Highest self. That is true love.

Your post came to me at the right time.. 
I have a question... Do they love back only when we love them unconditionally? And what do we have to say to ourselves? We love them but we don't care if they don't? Or we have to be sure that they love us back? But, what if we see that they don't?
 

You can love without expecting anything in return. In fact, that is what true love is.

Jesus Christ once said "No greater love is there than this, that one would lay his life down for his friend" and to "love your enemies and bless those who curse you"

This is unconditional love. You should love yourself and love others as yourself. That is all you need to do.
 

Last edited by Craigd88 (5/23/2016 2:15 am)

Milk&Honey wrote:

Ok, I can understand what you're saying. But Veronica says that we have to repeat every day that they love us. She says that we have to be focused on ourselves and not the other person (I understand this meaning), but we have to believe that they love us. What's the difference? I am a little bit confused ... 
Thanks for your answer 

I am not saying dont act and believe that they dont love you. You can write the script and they will play their part. If you visualize them loving you, they will love you. I am just saying to love them regardless of how they treat you. You cant blame them for how they treat you because you are creating that reality. If you love them, you might find that they love you back ;)


In your imagination, believe that they love you. In current reality, love yourself. 
 

Yes for the most part that is it.

Wayne Dyer always said "You cant give away something you dont have". How can you love someone if you dont love yourself? You love him because he is apart of Source/God just as you are! We are all in this together!

Loving him to "get him to love you" is not love at all imo. Love, by definition, is selfless and unconditional. To love someone to get a response from them is like giving someone a gift and expecting a payment from them. It doesnt work that way