lemon wrote:

So? That doesn't mean anything. Everyone's story is different. Just because she dated another guy doesn't mean anything other than her focus wasn't waiting around for him to pick up the phone. She just went out and lived her life for her. There are hundreds of other stories where the person focus on themselves (which to me is more important than dating another person) that's the thing-your focus is not on the other person it's on the self. No story is the same.

I NEVER once said everybody's story is the same. I am just showing one example where it has happened and there are many more. So climb off your horse please.

Whoa you're right my horse is kinda of tired..? I love how you assume I am on a high horse cause I don't agree with what you wrote.. you were the one who told her you disagree with her wanting to not date someone else because you found a story that a lady went on a date someone else and the ex came running back in lament terms.
I responded i think perfectly fine that just because you found one story (and "there are many more") doesn't mean that is not the only way. I will say it again and repeat it Everyone is different, every story is and will be different, and if that means I am a high horse, you can call  that horse stanley. I wasn't rude to you, or unkind, I just disagree with you. Just don't suggest that she is wrong for not wanting to date another person and wants to work on herself to have a better relationship with her love. 

ps. Never once was I rude to you, so maybe don't throw out rude remarks like that. I just found what you wrote was something I disagreed with. Maybe it was a form of miscommunication. Have a good night Chalicesnowflower

Hey! Let's get back the positivity! We all get to make our own truths.. We all get to create our very own reality! That's why it's called OUR OWN!

You split for 2 years and got back together? :D wow that makes me feel really happy today! OK I'll tell you a success story that happened to my ex's ex ;) I dated my first bf for 3 weeks, turned out he was rebounding from another girl and he broke up with me....he didn't go back to the other girl and a whole year and half later me and him got back together ! (I had 2 other bfs during this time) we only lasted 4 months and he left again, I tried to get him back for 2 months, gave up, moved on to another guy, me and that guy lasted 4 months, that guy left and the original guy came back the day after we broke up begging for a third chance! I said no. Never regretted that. Well the following year I heard he got back together with the girl he had left for me in the first place haha all very confusing! But they're so happy now and they had been apart for 3.5 years and he had been with me in between and she had a serious boyfriend during that time but they came back together they were 16 when they first dated, they got back together when they were 21 and now they're 24 and still happy I'm happy for them, I think its a sweet story

No one is disagreeing that that has happened for others. It seems as tho you (Shootingstar) always have some sort of arguement towards me and my intentions and my beliefs. Almost as tho you are trying to push your limitations/ and or beliefs on me. So I do ask you kindly that if you could only post/reply with encouraging statements that back my beliefs about MY creation, that would be awesome! Otherwise, I would appreciate if you didn't respond at all. I say that only out of love 😁 .. It's just that sometimes your responses make me wobble. ( less and less here recently, bc I'm becoming more and more confident, but nevertheless.. Only positivity please!! 😘