Allowing means focusing on feeling good or feeling better.

It means chilling, relaxing, being easy about all of this stuff, not taking life too seriously, laughing, playing, having more fun, flowing love, appreciating and feeling worthy. It is focusing on what you want and what feels good to think about.
 It means focusing on feeling good now, trusting that what you want will show up any minute now. It means being grateful that your desire has manifested even though you do not see physical evidence yet.

Resistance means focusing on feeling bad or feeling worse.

It means efforting, caring more about your actions than about how you feel, struggling, feeling stressed, angry, frustrated, overwhelmed, doubt, sad, unworthy, trying too hard, trying to make things happen, using action in an attempt to compensate for your energy that is not in alignment. It is focusing on the lack or absence of what you want, focusing on what you don’t want, and not focused what you do want. It means pushing against, judging, judging what is and your current conditions, and judging other people. You feel impatient, waiting for a manifestation so that you can feel better.