iinikkii wrote:

I absolutely agree.. I'm learning to actually enjoy my own company.. And that is something I've never done before. It does feel good to say that I really do like me

Seriously do what makes you feel the best, cause that will release he most resistance for you. Everyone is different and that's ok, no two snowflakes are the same as the saying goes. And go out w friends, play manifesting games, or do things you never did before, I did kayaking and rock climbing and I was so proud of myself and in my head I could hear my man in the vortex yell out "there you go babe look at that awesomeness" cause we are all awesome when we love ourselves truly. I feel like I'm already back with my guy and it just did a cherry on top of how happy I am with me. It's a growing process and it feels amazing

ShootingStar wrote:

All of my old boyfriends who I wanted back only came back while I was dating and liking other people... 4 boyfriends in total. Either they felt I was into someone else or saw it or in some cases I was open and told them and they would come back or freak out. Its when I'm single or wanting them that they seem to stay away...

Yah, I don't share that belief. Last time we split for 2 years.. I don't date anyone and we got back together. So I'm gonna stick to being true to my heart

mugginess wrote:

iinikkii wrote:

ShootingStar wrote:

All of my old boyfriends who I wanted back only came back while I was dating and liking other people... 4 boyfriends in total. Either they felt I was into someone else or saw it or in some cases I was open and told them and they would come back or freak out. Its when I'm single or wanting them that they seem to stay away...

Yah, I don't share that belief. Last time we split for 2 years.. I don't date anyone and we got back together. So I'm gonna stick to being true to my heart

Whether or not you date other people it's up to you, but you are not acting "as if" when you're pining for him. I know it's hard to not pine for him but doing so is just opening that void in your heart. 

Why not get your hair done? Or shop for a new outfit? You'd do that if you were back with him anyway. Why not do that now? Even go out with your girlfriends, go to places you would take your date then you'd be prepared. We all know you can do it, but you need to believe, and not yearn.

This! And you are right you don't have to if you don't want that nothing wrong with it. Just make sure you become number one which you are doing and beautifully.  I know you can do it and soon it becomes natural enough, I got that level and it feels good. I can be happy doing my own thing and yet I'm living as if that he is with me and I feel it. It's like an extra boost of confidence. Just remember you are a shining star and a hottie and your guy knows he's lucky to be with you cause you are a queen. Positive vibes sisters!

lemon wrote:

mugginess wrote:

iinikkii wrote:

Yah, I don't share that belief. Last time we split for 2 years.. I don't date anyone and we got back together. So I'm gonna stick to being true to my heart

Whether or not you date other people it's up to you, but you are not acting "as if" when you're pining for him. I know it's hard to not pine for him but doing so is just opening that void in your heart. 

Why not get your hair done? Or shop for a new outfit? You'd do that if you were back with him anyway. Why not do that now? Even go out with your girlfriends, go to places you would take your date then you'd be prepared. We all know you can do it, but you need to believe, and not yearn.

This! And you are right you don't have to if you don't want that nothing wrong with it. Just make sure you become number one which you are doing and beautifully.  I know you can do it and soon it becomes natural enough, I got that level and it feels good. I can be happy doing my own thing and yet I'm living as if that he is with me and I feel it. It's like an extra boost of confidence. Just remember you are a shining star and a hottie and your guy knows he's lucky to be with you cause you are a queen. Positive vibes sisters!

Oh, he is definitely the lucky one. Lol.. And yes positive vibes. It's just practice, and persisting. I am doing this! I am succeeding! My success story is in the works!

iinikkii wrote:

And.. I don't have to date other guys to get my guy! That's crazy. If I just wanted angbody.. I would have someone. And I most definitely wouldn't be here on this forum if that were the case

I will wholeheartedly disagree with you on this one. I came across a success story just a few days ago on The Secret website. This lady successful got her ex back the very minute she started dating another guy. Her ex felt her pulling away from him energetically and reached out to her immediately. Just because you date other guys does not mean you are telling the Universe that you no longer love or want your ex back. You are looking at this from the wrong angel.

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