Cherished wrote:

Best thing you can do is take a nap. Honestly.

Already did. Now what? I just want to be positive and happy

and what if, because she says she has "no feelings for me" and that "space/time won't make me gain feelings for you. it's too late for that", me going into NC just makes her lose ANY interest she has lleft in me?

RollingRock33 wrote:

So...

1) What if she's mad at me after giving all this space?

2) What if she finds someone knew and thinks I'm just 'giving up' on her?

This is a story for you so get comfy and seriously take this to your heart and meditate on it before reActinfn. I will apologize cause I did laugh at how ridic you sounded, I'm serving you some tough love because you just won't stop and this is deep down from me wanting you to succeed so you may disagree or even say I'm a ***** but I'm saying it...but what space have you given her? You just said you messaged her yesterday w telling her how her future is going to be like. (We will be together or whatever you said) You possibility gave her .01% space by surviving one day without messaging her? And you're asking this after your afternoon which resulted w the cops being called...?

After cap locking how horrible your week is and like I told you before strong emotions and repeating how much you hate life basically the universe goes "oh ok he really loves it! Give him more situations like this cause he feels so strongly on it, look he's glowing and yelling. His soul says yes!" (You don't have to believe me but it's evidential to other people who study loa that is what is happening)

You don't have your priorities straight what so ever. And if she did find someone new it's only cause you just wrote her script for her of finding someone new. Your obsession will destroy any chance you will have in winning her back. You couldn't even name that many things that make you happy with yourself when I asked you before. You know why? Cause deep down you are saying "I am nothing without her" which translates into "I can't be anything more than this hallow body." Cause everything, everything (happiness, love) that is depended on someone else people on here I bet can tell you; it will only hurt you in the long run.

I would suggest you go on YouTube and really listen with open ears and brain to all those Loaers you called earlier woo hoo you might gain a little bit of faith in your situation. Or least spark some belief in YOU AND YOUR WORTH. But im saying this with the biggest wanting you to survive this life,!you might need to see professional help for your mental health. And I wouldn't just throw it out there but i will tell you why I said this:

1.)You said earlier you wanted to die which was the second time you said that and that is not something you should throw out there. That shouldn't be said lightly. You Obvs don't value your life enough to not say it.

2.) you are so focused on her that getting into a fight with your family (and I don't know you or your family but even if you have a 'crazy' father you can always be the one to turn things around or to stop before it gets worst) and having the cops called doesn't seem to bother you cause you went right back to her and if she finds someone. 

3.) you are disregarding EVERYTHING everyone has given you already, including people who had success (cherished and craig88) it's like you're really wanting to fail because you're not listening to anyone who has succeeded before you. Craig even gave you a descriptive list on what to do an it looks like you don't even want to try to succeed like he did.


4.) And just to prove what a little bit faith and self love does. I manifest a new gym, new clothes, money, better relationship with family, a concert and i just had three guys in my past  popped up recently who use every chance they get to talk to me. Yeah it's not my man (yet) but You know why I'm getting more attention? I'm taking care of myself and having great vibes that attract people. And I'm loving myself and people want that. Ever heard of the phrase "if you build it, they will come" from a famous movie, use that for yourself. You hear me? YOURSELF!


Seriously think about why you guys had a relationship to begin with? Cause there was Obvs something she saw in you that she liked. And you want to get back, fine we here giving you the tools. You have to fix you! That's the simple answer you want? Get to the point in which she remembers why she fell for you in the first place. Don't do it with shoving down her throat you changed cause than you didnt. You would be contradicting yourself. Believe in yourself and your energy and she will fly to you like you were covered in God damn gold honey. Don't wait around your phone, don't text call her don't spy on her (last thing you want is for you to shoot yourself in the foot right?!) Don't want to fully believe, fine but you are giving yourself the answers without even realizing it.  Get up go into the mirror and look at yourself in the eyes and forgive yourself for getting into obstacle but that you are strong and you love yourself and will love yourself more and more every day.

And that's all from me *drops mic*

Cyclewoman1974 wrote:

Lemon..that was magnificent. As they say on the religious channels.."and all God's people said AMEN"

Thank you! Thank You I'm here all night lol.

RollingRock33 wrote:

UGH I just had an argument with my CRAZY parents, and they're calling the police. They're on their way over. I'm on probation for something that's not entirely my fault. My siblings even say my father is insane. GOD ******* DAMMIT THIS WEEK JUST KEEPS GETTING WORSE AND WORSE!!!!!!!!!!!! I'M TRYING TO STAY GODDAMN ******* POSITIVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I try so hard to imagine her coming back to me, or even to ignore thoughts of her, but they keep coming back. I try to talk myself into being positive, but NOTHING. IS. HELPING. I'm SO PISSED AND DEPRESSED. I just. want to. ******* DIE.

When it rains it pours it's the worst! I don't know you, but I think from hearing you, you're probably young, like somewhere around 21 and under? I'm also young, I'm 22 but something I can tell you is that during the years when I was 18-22 I suffered from really intense emotions and I would go down like you and have high emotional situations way too often. I was just like you, I couldn't imagine my life without my boyfriend, I had a total breakdown and went a bit crazy but you know I think that's normal enough for young first love that goes a bit wrong. The past year my emotions have calmed down a lot. I think when we're young, we don't know how to really handle our strong emotions or some people can be susceptible to being particularly emotional volatile from childhood trauma. I recommend therapy if you think you might have a problem with high emotion in your life or just learn about coping through the internet and learning to relax and meditate I think you have to mature a lot emotionally which is what we all have to do at a certain time in our lives and it's ok, it's normal Lots of people go through this, I did, if you want to PM me you can