lemon wrote:

happyinlove wrote:

STOP we have already told you this. She can get the vibration from you . We have told you examples of this working we have told you that you can get her back you just have to trust loa. Most importantly it's about getting you back and the rest will follow but you don't seem to be listening even to the plan I gave you..

Are you even aware how you are coming across? Not to be rude, cause believe me we all had our low low points in the beginning and some still have hiccups, but when you say you love her It doesn't sound like love it sounds like desperate need for control.

If you had unconditional love you would understand her need for space and time. Unconditional love means love that you don't need an answer, you just love. Without being all "but but but" no butts, just love her from afar but leave her ALONE. You are doing more damage by telling her what she thinks. No girl is attracted to that.

You are coming across (first impression) as no self worth cause your more focus on her and that's putting her on this huge pedestal, and think of it where does that leave you, on the floor because you're not saying your worth(it's all about her). What does she gain going back to you at this precise moment?
(and I know you will say someone who loves her but in all and all she is like and?)

Obvs there's more to it than just her. Think of this as a wake up call-focus on yourself for once! Do things without thinking of her or with her. Find your inner soul and be like "I'm going to nurture you for a little bit."

Find who you truly are.

Cause the success stories you read here are from people who not only got their person back, they GOT Themselves and their Worth back. The person they got back is because they realize 'there is the person I fell for in the first place, that confident, amazing, sexy person."

Let that resonate in you. I'm reading your posts and all energy i get is "I need control, I need this, I'm so needy cause I need proof I need someone to tell me she's coming back" where's is "I am amazing, everyone loves me and we will be back together" you see the difference? And again this isn't meant to be rude or like grow a pair but seriously I don't want you to stoop so low and not get any result and be like "see it doesn't work cause I didn't get my gf" this is more than just requesting a gift from the universe.

Totally agree 100%!! I may need help from lemon and happyinlove myself!! You both are amazing contributors!

Last edited by alston326 (5/21/2016 10:39 am)

RollingRock33 wrote:

Haven't contacted her yet today. Feeling good. She's coming back; I know she is! B)

Do not contact her for at least 30 days whatsoever. Use this time to heal. Ill send you a gift card to Amazon if you succeed lol.

Im serious. NO CONTACT AT ALL. WORK ON YOURSELF. FORGET THAT WOMAN.

alston326 wrote:

lemon wrote:

happyinlove wrote:

STOP we have already told you this. She can get the vibration from you . We have told you examples of this working we have told you that you can get her back you just have to trust loa. Most importantly it's about getting you back and the rest will follow but you don't seem to be listening even to the plan I gave you..

Are you even aware how you are coming across? Not to be rude, cause believe me we all had our low low points in the beginning and some still have hiccups, but when you say you love her It doesn't sound like love it sounds like desperate need for control.

If you had unconditional love you would understand her need for space and time. Unconditional love means love that you don't need an answer, you just love. Without being all "but but but" no butts, just love her from afar but leave her ALONE. You are doing more damage by telling her what she thinks. No girl is attracted to that.

You are coming across (first impression) as no self worth cause your more focus on her and that's putting her on this huge pedestal, and think of it where does that leave you, on the floor because you're not saying your worth(it's all about her). What does she gain going back to you at this precise moment?
(and I know you will say someone who loves her but in all and all she is like and?)

Obvs there's more to it than just her. Think of this as a wake up call-focus on yourself for once! Do things without thinking of her or with her. Find your inner soul and be like "I'm going to nurture you for a little bit."

Find who you truly are.

Cause the success stories you read here are from people who not only got their person back, they GOT Themselves and their Worth back. The person they got back is because they realize 'there is the person I fell for in the first place, that confident, amazing, sexy person."

Let that resonate in you. I'm reading your posts and all energy i get is "I need control, I need this, I'm so needy cause I need proof I need someone to tell me she's coming back" where's is "I am amazing, everyone loves me and we will be back together" you see the difference? And again this isn't meant to be rude or like grow a pair but seriously I don't want you to stoop so low and not get any result and be like "see it doesn't work cause I didn't get my gf" this is more than just requesting a gift from the universe.

Totally agree 100%!! I may need help from lemon and happyinlove myself!! You both are amazing contributors!

Haha thank you! I am just leaning to be my own cheerleader but if you ever want to talk just message me!

Talk to your fear and doubts as if it were your friend. It is apart of you, you need to embrace and console it. I posted a video from YouTube on self love and this method is really effective in calming you down. Be the friendship to push you to strive for the best of EVERYTHING!!!

I can't ******* stay positve. God damnit. No matter HOW ******* HARD I TRY. And lord knows I'VE ******* TRIED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!