Ok RollingRock (good beer btw) listen up. I am going to tell you things you do not WANT to hear but you NEED to hear. You may resist these teachings at first but I do ask you read them over and over again. You will soon learn the truth and it will set you free. I am in alignment and your situation was much like mine was. Here it goes:


First, you need to calm down. Put the brakes on every form of communication with your girl. Do not look at her facebook, snapchat stories, twitter, etc. Do not call her, do not text her, do not try to "run into her" in public, etc. You need to retreat back to your man cave and heal. You have been wounded. We are going to patch your wounds up, pour salt on them and give you a 5th of whiskey to drink as we perform surgery on them during this time. Also, we are going to teach you the Law. I am a man speaking to a man. You are a badass. You are a man. You dont let **** get to you like this. You certainly dont let a woman dictate your happiness or purpose in life. Now are you ready for the steps to recovery? (Yes I said RECOVERY because I could care less if you get your ex back. She is irrelevant. We are going to get YOU back first. She will follow after you are back trust me)

Right now you need to do ANYTHING and EVERYTHING to reach for a happy thought. Surround yourself with hobbies, video games, good music, outdoor activities, buddies and yes other women eventually (not right away though). You need to get your focus off of your ex. This seems counter intuitive to the LOA teaching but hear me out. Right now, you are NOT in the state to attract her back. You are in a low vibration. You are full of desperation, fear, doubt, sadness, etc. Thinking about your ex in those states will only reinforce your current situation (which is her not being with you).

I want you to toss out visualization, RS, vision boards, focus wheels, etc. Those are just techniques to do one thing and one thing alone: get you feeling good. You can feel good by doing things not even related to "attracting your ex back".  I want you to focus ONLY on you and feeling good about yourself. Work out in a gym, dress differently, get a hair cut, etc. Do whatever you can to boost some confidence in yourself. As a man, we get our egos and confidence bruised when a girl dumps us. It sucks. But right now, this very moment...you are going to rise up and be a better man. You are not only going to get through this, you will look back and realize how silly your first post was! LOL

Ok so ONLY ONLY ONLY think of your ex when YOU ARE FEELING GOOD or IT FEELS GOOD TO THINK OF HER. Do NOT think of her any other time. DO NOT. If you do, you add negative energy to the outcome you are wanting and you will stall your desired outcome. You can use those LOA techniques when you feel good and confident that they will work. Just doing them will not do anything. The techniques do NOT do the work. Your vibration does the work. Let me repeat that for everyone reading: THE TECHNIQUES DO NOT DO THE WORK IN ATTRACTING SOMETHING OR SOMEONE, YOUR FAITH AND VIBRATION DOES THE WORK.

Work on yourself. Forget your ex. Im serious...mourn her loss. MOVE ON from her. (trust me on this....just please trust me). She will feel your energy and power shift and she will reach out to you once you have moved on. And moving on doesnt have to mean you wont want her again, but it does mean you dont NEED her. There is a HUGE difference.

We are going to turn you into a man. A confident, badass, sexy stud who attracts whatever he desires. But first, we gotta shed this shell of a guy you have allowed yourself to become. Yes, you allowed this to happen but its ok. Thats a good thing because if you allowed it to happen, you can reverse it. Easily actually. All the work must be done to yourself. YOU are the only thing that needs to change in all of this. Lets get to work shall we? im here for ya bud.

1. Work on you, raise vibe, stay busy
2. Forget about the girl, mourn her loss and move on
3. Become a badass manifestor and man
4. Girl comes back and not just her...several lol.

Later on once your in a better emotional state, then you can use the techniques to attract her back. Hell, by that time you may not even want her back because you will just love yourself so much! You might even meet a better one ;)

Trust me, ive walked this path. It sucks for a few months but it gets better. You will grow so much.



 

Craig; to everything, thanks so much man! That was awesome!!!

SS; Right, so, if I came across super needy, made all the wrong plays, etc... (Which  I had. I came across needy as **** and terribly posessive, etc.) how would she even begin to come back?

EDIT:

Oh, also, I did tell her last time we spoke, that I'm going to be busy with my studies so communication might be more sparse.

Last edited by RollingRock33 (5/20/2016 8:03 pm)

happyinlove wrote:

RollingRock33 wrote:

So this is the LAST thing I said to her. Sent it over a thing.

"Have a goodnight's sleep. I'm happy you're feeling better! I love you very very much. Despite how much I my actions may have shown otherwise. I've done a lot of things in the past to strain things between us, and I'm so sorry. But I still want to spend my life with you and I know we'll get there in time. I know that feeling will come back... I'll be here. I'll be working on myself. Anyway, I need to go back to sleep now. I have no idea why I just woke up I'm super exhausted. Have a goodnight!!! Sleep well!"

This is the LAST thing I'm saying to her. No contact begins NOW.

This is not what you want to hear but I am saying it anyway NO NO NOOO! You can't take it back but no more like for reals. This still sounds desperate and until you take the time this is how she will see it. Now this is done it has already happened seriously no contact none at all NOW

Right. Starting now
But she can be pretty spiritual, so I'm hoping that by emphasizing "I know we'll be together", she'll think about it more. Sure she may be a bit "UGH STOP SAYING THAT" at first, but I feel like that'll stick with her, and through this space, she'll start overthinking it, and might believe it.

I just need to believe she's coming back. I need to work on my beliefs here. 
I have a book with pictures of us kissing and when i look at it i'm happy
I just need to have faith she's coming back from here on out. The earliest I'll reach out again is August (my birthday) - sounds good? that much time for space?

Rollingrock,

Please read my post again. Please.

happyinlove wrote:

STOP we have already told you this. She can get the vibration from you . We have told you examples of this working we have told you that you can get her back you just have to trust loa. Most importantly it's about getting you back and the rest will follow but you don't seem to be listening even to the plan I gave you..

Are you even aware how you are coming across? Not to be rude, cause believe me we all had our low low points in the beginning and some still have hiccups, but when you say you love her It doesn't sound like love it sounds like desperate need for control.

If you had unconditional love you would understand her need for space and time. Unconditional love means love that you don't need an answer, you just love. Without being all "but but but" no butts, just love her from afar but leave her ALONE. You are doing more damage by telling her what she thinks. No girl is attracted to that.

You are coming across (first impression) as no self worth cause your more focus on her and that's putting her on this huge pedestal, and think of it where does that leave you, on the floor because you're not saying your worth(it's all about her). What does she gain going back to you at this precise moment?
(and I know you will say someone who loves her but in all and all she is like and?)

Obvs there's more to it than just her. Think of this as a wake up call-focus on yourself for once! Do things without thinking of her or with her. Find your inner soul and be like "I'm going to nurture you for a little bit."

Find who you truly are.

Cause the success stories you read here are from people who not only got their person back, they GOT Themselves and their Worth back. The person they got back is because they realize 'there is the person I fell for in the first place, that confident, amazing, sexy person."

Let that resonate in you. I'm reading your posts and all energy i get is "I need control, I need this, I'm so needy cause I need proof I need someone to tell me she's coming back" where's is "I am amazing, everyone loves me and we will be back together" you see the difference?  And again this isn't meant to be rude or like grow a pair but seriously I don't want you to stoop so low and not get any result and be like "see it doesn't work cause I didn't get my gf" this is more than just requesting a gift from the universe.